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Would you like it if your girlfriend was bi curious?

Discussion in 'BBS Hangout' started by Rox_fan_here, Apr 7, 2010.

  1. Rox_fan_here

    Rox_fan_here Member

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    No homo, and I am sober as I write this.

    Its a serious question.

    If you met this amazing girl, possibly marriage material, and she came to you one day expressing her fantasy about being with another woman and that she would like to try it (with your permission of course) what would you think? How would you react?

    Would you lose respect for her? Would it make her more perfect?

    Keep in mind that we are talking about someone you are considering for long term plans and not just someone to mess around with.

    I would appreciate advice from married people as well as those looking to settle down.
     
  2. CheezeyBoy22

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    Are you with this girl?
     
  3. REEKO_HTOWN

    REEKO_HTOWN I'm Rich Biiiiaaatch!

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    There is nothing wrong with being curious.

    Would I allow it if I were thinking about marrying her? Nope.

    It could also be a Trap!!11, so tread carefully.
     
  4. Rox_fan_here

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    In a short answer: Si
     
  5. Lil Pun

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    I'd let her go for it.
     
  6. rhadamanthus

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    Probably lead to trouble.

    but

    Enjoy this opportunity while available.
     
  7. BmwM3

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    Say you do marry her. Now she has 2x the chance of leaving you.
     
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  8. YallMean

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    So your gf is a bi? :grin: That's dope.
    Dude you hit a jackpot. Enjoy it while she still likes sausage.
     
  9. DonkeyMagic

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    curious is one thing. if you are in a committed relationship and she really wants to do it, then that may be more of an issue.

    Regardless, you being present at the first time she experiments is a must. And might i recommend some of these...

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  10. Chamillionaire

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    my friend's wife used to be a stripper, and she still has the stripper mentality, she likes girls. he doesn't seem to mind. i know a few people like this.

    as for me. NO. my wife's not going to act like that. especially when she's the mother of my kids.
     
  11. CheezeyBoy22

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    Then it all really depends on you man. I know a lot of guys all time fantasy is being with two girls but I know some guys that got their feelings hurt after it had taken place.

    If you're thinking about marriage, I would think long and hard about that man. It can really cause issues and make you feel uncomfortable in the end. I had a buddy of mine that was married recently got divorce over something like this. His ex-wife started to like women too much and was basically fooling around on him.

    Reeko also has a point. Could be a trap...
     
  12. moestavern19

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    This threads is begging for a Ronny beat-down.



    and "no homo" is such a stupid, stupid phrase.


    What is the meaning of it?


    You can say "no homo" and then suck a dick, still doesn't make you not a homo.

    The assertion of being a homosexual comes with actions, it isn't like calling shotgun for the front seat.
     
  13. DonkeyMagic

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  14. Blake

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    I think a lot of you are assuming that he is allowed to be there. If that's the case, then go for it if it doesn't make you uncomfortable.

    If it's her alone, you might one day end up hiring Joey Greco and being the poor SOB who's SO is cheating on him with a woman.

    It could be a slippery slope. Or it could be pure awesomeness.
     
  15. CheezeyBoy22

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  16. wtfamonkey

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    Bad idea!

    just look at Ross from friends. :grin:
     
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  17. moestavern19

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    I'm not being negative, I'm calling out idiocy.


    "No homo" just irks the living **** out of me every time I see it because it has no logical basis.


    Plus its just typical adolescent male homophobic machismo.
     
  18. noscrusir

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    I agree. But it's really all personal preference I guess.
     
  19. GRENDEL

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    Did she change her relationship status on FB to "open relationship" to you too?
     
  20. across110thstreet

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    yeah I don't get the thought process behind declaring that you are not a homo, followed up by sharing that your girlfriend may indeed be exploring her own inner homo.

    what I am saying is there might be some homo involved here.
     

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