Sorry to sisters on the board. But I'm really pissed. Some of you might know my last gas station episode with my ex GF. Anyway, we splitted but still talked from time to time. Then last Sunday, I backed out out dinnering with her since she's late and still has other stuffs to finish before she could go, and I couldn't go so late. Then the woman get real mad. She called me constantly to vent and scold me. After I get tired of listening to her, I simply didn't pick up her calls any more. She then left a bunch of scolding messages on my answering machine. But the worst is still to come. She then wanted me to deliver some stuff she left at my place to her asap. I told her I didn't want to see her at the time and would arrange to get those stuffs back to her some other time. She then came up to my place, but I didn't answer the door. Then came the crazy part. As she pulled her car out of the place, she purposely ran her car into the rear bumper of my car in the parking lot, twice!! Now it has some deep scratches and a small dent. Well, I called police after half a minute of hesitation. My question is, will she gets into trouble for this? Or what can I do to let that crazy bit*h get the punishment she deserves?
I've told others this a bazillion times: When you break up with a girl, immediately get your stuff back, give her her stuff back, and NEVER contact her again (that also means, don't accept her calls or requests). I have never seen anything good come from people who stay in contact with ex-gf's. Not once. If somebody were to ever tell me that they get aong fine with an ex, I'd say either A) they're lying to me and to themselves about their relationship with their ex B) There are problems ahead C) They're probably a lonely person and should find some other new, nice people to fraternize with. I suggest you leave her alone, pay for your own car repair (or just leave it), and move on with a life without her. -- droxford
whatever you do, don't leave it. everytime you see the damage, it will remind you of her. unless you're a masochist and if you are, then leave it.
I remember wanting to do some damage to someone's car once.... Never did it though. That's just nutz. I'd make her pay for it.
Man, I think you got off lucky, that woman coulda went John Malvo on you. Just find something for cover next time she comes towards your place, and dial those 3 numbers
Sounds like drama.. ive been there man. Here is the thread that I posted following my break-up, there is some good advice on there even though the situations are quite different. Franchise2001's crazy ex Just stick to your guns, get her to fix your car, and don't call that ho ever again. There are so many sweet girls out there, you don't need a woman with this much attitude. I just hope she doesn't do what my ex did. First, she threatened to commit suicide. Then, the dumb ho called me up a month later and told me that I gave her an STD. Tests revealed that she was a big, fat(didn't start off that way until she got addicted to Wendy's) LIAR. Good luck man
You have to create a report. They probably won't do anything, but keep creating reports everytime **** like this happens. That way if it keeps going on like this you can get a restraining order. Otherwise, when it starts to get real bad you won't have any proof. It's just like those women that get abused and never report it and then when it gets really bad the police can't do anyting because there is no history, then the guy shows up and kills her. Maybe you think she wouldn't do that, but after this and her leaving you at the gas station, I'd say she has potential.
You think that's bad, my ex-wife A.) cleaned out my bank account B.) slashed the tires on my truck (nice Mickey Thompsons too! ) and C.) ran off with some a-hole lawyer in NC. All of this while I was on a six-month deployment! I didn't find out until I got a Dear John while on exercise three months after she did all this (it sometimes takes that long to get your mail) in the ME. So your story, while I feel sorry for you, pales in comparison. The only thing my ex left in our house were the icecube trays (unlike the ex-wife in True Lies). At least she had that common courtesy.
the best revenge you can possibly get on an ex is this. http://www.milkandcookies.com/stuff/homebase.asx warning, adult situations and language. and its a little long. and i gotta agree with droxford, after a breakup, disengage all contact , nothing good can come out of it...unless shes a nymph without any emotions. or a nymph that is bicurious....umm..watch the movie.
My dad's friend came home one day to an empty house. Apparently the guy's wife was talking to some guy on the internet in Califronia, fell in love over the computer, packed up the whole house in one day, and took everything to California. The only thing she left was the computer and some stuff she didn't want. They trailed her through the computer she left. After 18 years. Just last week my other friend's wife left him. She said that she wanted to try something more exciting. So she moved to california. The same place she had just visited alone one month ago. The worst part is that he loved her for her personality. Se wasn't even that good looking. So he was hurt big time. After 1 year. Women can definately be evil.
You are offbase with this one. Almost as far off as your flub over accaptable words.. I get along with half of my exes.. 1) I dont lie 2) No problems ahead for me, Im happily married and they have gone on with their lives. 3) It's hard to get lonely with 2 kids and a wife running around the house.. Dont always assume that just becasue you have had bad luck, everyone else is in your boat.
Wow, some of the story here are real bad. It makes me feel better. She's just someone who thinks she is the whole world, and can not control her emotion sometime. too bad there isn't something in this that can makes her realize that.
