Just wondering... I'm apparently programmed already. Kind of stupid, but I definately like the curvy look. Caught my self looking the otherday and and was wondering. Why? Nothing in it for me, really. What is the appeal, exactly? We have this idea there's a sexual connection, but I'd have to think it's more a display behavior. The actual sensual delivery isn't much compared to lower body. Aesthetically, what's the deal with the S curve and what's the implied promise that heats up the appreciation or idea of display? Is there another cultural idea in the east or south america? Not asking what turns you on...but rather why you think there's a locally universal response.
I like nice sized ones, not huge but not too small either. My girlfriend's 36 C's are just fine with me!
Hmmm...well, you suck on something during the first year of your life, so I guess you're having flashbacks from your carefree youth...
I have always wondered my many...most...all except gay men are attracted to two of more females doing their thing? I have spoken to a lot of women and not one finds it attracted when two or more men are all on each other so why do men find it attractive to see women all on each other?
I always say that it is instinct. We look for the big ones because we think that they will better feed our offspring. I'm sure if I payed attention in any of my anthropology, sociology, or psychology classes, I would have learned something different.
I think that not a few guys thing BIGGER is better, in general. I have "dated" girls with all sizes and have come to the conclusion that breat size is way overrated. Just as long as they got em, it works for me
see...i don't buy this...this falls down historically...the picture of what is sexy has changed over time. in the 20's, girls with flat figures were deemed sexy...we saw that a little later too with Twiggy. in some cultures large breasts are deemed attractive...in others, they are not. that's why i have a hard time believing that what or who i'm sexually attracted to is anything more than a product of sociology. i looked at the SI swimsuit edition as a kid...that, in many ways, shaped what i find to be sexy. had i been told by society that something else was attractive, i probably would have found that something else attractive.
Actually, the idea that breasts are a sex object or are anything more than a tool for feeding children is almost a strictly Westernized thought and idea. Sure, other cultures see them as a sexual thing, but MOST pre-western thinking, tribal thinking, and ancient thinking, associated breasts with motherhood and care-giving, not sex. In our anthropology class we learned that it is society and culture that determines what is sexy and what is not, what is taboo, and what is accepted. Just because our Westerized ideas say that breasts are sexually appealing does not make it untrue either, its true to us, so its true enough. However, its when civilizations cross are mistakes made. For example, many African nations find that breasts are no big deal, they just feed the kids, however, the back of a woman's knee and the shape of her thighs are extremely appealing, and getting to see or touch those is a sexually stimulating experience in that culture. In Asia, its the women's small feet that are considered attractive, in other parts of Africa, the shape of a mans forhead and the size of his head are what determines attractiveness. In some parts of the world, a little bit of a gut promotes wealth and health (because they have food) so some fat is actually sought after. It all has to do with your cultural and societal beliefs. One thing that some anthropologists and sociologists have determines is that a woman's breast is not a naturally sexual thing...our environment and upbringing has taught us that it is. A breast to someone that has been brought up away from a westernized society (or any other society with a breast infatuation) is not any sexier that the back of a knee for us.
I dunno the validity of it, but I've read that since humans began walking upright, there had to be a different way to show off, er, stuff. So as the er, stuff, became hidden, the lips became pinker and fuller and breasts became larger as a bodily reflection of er, stuff. That's why you like big t*tties. Edit: Looking forward to Baqui99's take on this.
I always find myself staring at womens breasts without even thinking about it. I don't even know I'm doing it and sometimes I don't even realize I did it until a few minutes afterwards. I will think to myself "man, I was really staring at her breasts! I wonder if she noticed." Weird.
I think a study was made on that and it had to do with the subjets vision of his mother.Just like what u try to find in ur partner is caracteristics of ur mother. I studied that a long time ago so its all a bit blury... ALA
Got this in an email today: <blockquote>The Story of my life . . . . When I was 14, I hoped that one day I would have a girlfriend . . . . When I was 16, I got a girlfriend, but there was no passion, so I decided I needed a passionate girl with zest for life . . . . In college, I dated a passionate girl, but she was too emotional, everything was an emergency; she was nothing but a drama queen, creied all the time and threatened suicide. So I decided I needed a girl with stability . . . . When I was 25 I found a very stable girl, but she was boring. She was totally predictable and never got excited about anything. Life became so dull that I decided that I needed a girl with some excitement . . . . When I was 28 I found an exciting girl, but I couldn't keep up with her. She rushed from one thing to another, never settling on anything. She did mad impetous things and made me miserable as often as she made me happy. She was great fun intially and very energetic, but directionless. So I decided to find a girl with some reall ambition . . . . When I turned 31, I found a smart ambitious girl with her feet planted firmly on the ground and married her. She was so ambitious that she divorced me and took everything I owned . . . . I am now older and much wiser, and am I looking for a girl with big t***.</blockquote>
I like big t***, and I cannot lie You other brothers can't deny When a girl walks in with some Double D jugs That are jiggling up and down, you get SPRUNG!
