I know it's not original, but damn, this girl that i'm gettin at seems a little high maintenance, and I am wondering if it's worth it, b/c she told me upfront, no dinner, no movies. Then I thought about a concert, but do I wanna spend $245 on this broad? hmmm, i don't knoww
I think a movie is a horrible place for an encounter when you want to get to know someone. You can't talk to them. Get coffee with her. Dunkin Donuts style. Then dunk yours in her donut.
Forget a concert. Dinners can be boring. Movies are horrible, because there is no chance to really interact and communicate.
That women has some nerve. I'm not a women but if you want to pay for my dinner and movie I'll be very grateful. I'm not going to give you anything back, but I will be grateful.
Dunno if he gonna get anything back from ole girl either *grin* Sounds like ole girl needs an Herb to take her someplace nice. Worse case senario . . .she will MEET a Ballah there to leave with. Rocket River
if ya'll can't have fun having dinner at one of the million places to eat on earth..then why even be with that person? don't build a relationship around activites.
My g/f just likes hangin out in general...If its a dinner and a movie she is happy...red box and mcdonalds same thing...I guess im lucky.
going to a nice dinner and drinking till the both of you are tipsy, that's a great date. a lot of good conversations if you're not shy. usually, if you can keep a conversation going, the girl will want to interact.
I just hate the whole having to read women and audition for women thing, which is 90% life. Also, you can read all the signals early on front end, and its "chemistry". But then afterward on the backend, there's no "compatibility". If you know her enough, I guess just try to sense what she's into. If she's artsy, try something artsy to do, and so forth... But yeah if she's already refusing advances, looks like bad news might as well bail now lol.
Girls don't like dinner and a movie? Why not? I sometimes switch things around. Hit a relatively early movie, have popcorn to tide you over, and then have a late dinner, with drinks. Emphasis on the drinks. Then I would insist on showing her the collection of art back at the pad. Then more drinks, or whatever. Works for me. Sure, she's already seen the art and helped pick a lot of it out, but who cares? Romance is the goal! My dates are with my "significant other" of very long standing.
