Why are HOT girls completely psychotic? Advice needed.....

This is seriously nothing that a few drinks with Refman, MadMax, my seven foot tall friend and me can't help on Friday night.

But seriously. I had that problem with my last girlfriend. Stuff that you should just be able to say "See ya" to just doesn't do the trick, and you think you're in love. Well, one day you'll find out that it's not supposed to be like that, and you'll wonder why you ever thought you did feel that way about her.

Great advice, yes I know.

 

I think Bushwick Bill of the Houston Ghetto Boys Said it more eloquently than I ever could:

Just Let a Ho be a Ho,
She f*&$ you and gave ya buddies a bl*w,
But your trick ass fell in love with the ho.

Tryin to change her
Make her be an Angel,
YOU KEEP PUTTIN YA DAMN LIFE IN DANGER!!


Summation: A girl is what she is, don't ever try to change a girl that you know is like that. Just have a good time and then run like hell!

 

Nope...sorry. I've got a Christmas party to go to. That sucks.

I promise I'll call you this week dude.

 

As long as you know she is playing you, then I guess you wont fall into that trap.

BTW, check you e-mail Drew, I have a Rockets question for you? (since your gonna be in Houston now.)

 

Drew,

Same thing recently happened to me. I was dating this gorgeous girl for over a year. Things had gotten really serious, but I began noticing how she would turn the littlest argument or issue into WWIII. Miscommunications would turn into heated discussions. Finally, I had to leave. It was hard, though, because I didn't want to just give up on the relationship, but I also didn't want to stay in a situation that would keep me from eventually finding true happiness. It was hard to make that call while I was in the middle of that whirlwind. I couldn't see the forrest for the trees. It became normalcy to me. Only after I was out of it for a while could I actually put it in perspective and see that it's NOT supposed to be that way. It was freakin' hard because I loved her. At the end of the day, though, I had to think about something: If she was THE ONE, was I willing to compromise what I really wanted and put up with numerous lies and this perpetual 'never being on the same page' dynamic? Of course not. I'm learning it's not supposed to be that way. Sorry you're going through that situation, man.

 

Hey Drewdog, not sure if I am following this correctly, but I thought it was less than 6 months ago that you said your girlfriend broke up with you...am I wrong??

And I also don't know why the hottest girls are so psychotic...I have met a few of those myself...strange!!!

 

Drew,

Been there and done that one before. I had met a girl at work over 5 years ago and I was instantly attracted to her. It didn't take long for everyone else to know that I had the "hots" for her.

Unfortunately, she played me for a fool. In spending time with her, I found out all kinds of things:

1) Her parents divorced when she was like 12 and that devestated her.
2) She was engaged to be married and her fiancee broke it off like 2 weeks before the wedding (I would later decide that he was a very SMART man!).
3) She eventually started going to a shrink (that is what she was telling me...I had no idea whether to believe that or not).

She was a classic HIGH-MAINTENANCE woman. Trust me, you want nothing to do with women like that. Whoever said that you can't change a woman like that is SOOOOOOOOO right. I haven't been in a lot of relationships, but after it ended with that girl, I cried for like 3 days straight. But now, I am SOOOOOOOO glad that things didn't work out because it would be one constant problem after another.

And to answer your question, I have a theory:

If the girl knows she is hot, she probably figures that there will always be some guy after her. Therefore, she will do whatever the hell she wants because even if he leaves, there will be another to take his place (and she might be acting like that on purpose because she thinks you are not "good enough" for her...in other words, she is "weeding you out.").

Good luck...I don't envy you at all.

 

Dude, that sucks.

 

Wow, that's pretty damn sage... esp. 'didn't want to stay in a situation that would keep me from eventually finding true happiness' and 'put it in perspective '.


It's really pretty obvious. The goal is to be married for the rest of your life...maybe 50, 60, 70 years. Physical appearance will deteriorate in a fraction of that time, but if you find the right woman, she will look great forever. The eyes, the smile...just don't change.

You cannot change people. A b*tch will be a b*tch forever. Not someone you want for a lifelong partner, eh?

 

Drewdog--

I can tell you this. It seems like you want this girl for a serious relationship. After being married for a year (not a long time...just long enough to experience a few things) I can tell you that anything she does now that hurts you will only INTENSIFY once you make it permanent. These are character traits and do not go away. They get worse.

Everybody has traits like these. You just have to pick somebody with traits that drive you nuts that you can still live with without going crazy.

Doesn't sound like this is it...I advise that you move on.

BTW...sorry to hear you can't make it Friday. Next time MadMax and I go for a few beers you'll have to come with us.

 

Her hotness is blurring your vision. Stop thinking with your **** and start thinking with your head, uhhh, the other one.

 

To answer the questin in your post, Why are HOT girls completely psychotic? It's because of their hair.

 

True true... You might be thinking HOT girls (with a capital H) come once in a lifetime, but that's not true happiness. The highs and lows might average out for now, but like many others have mentioned, "Do you really think she'll change her ways or get better?"

 

It's long distance, she lies, freaks out, and you get the feeling she's 'popular'!?!?

Get out...get out now...Run, don't walk, don't stop at Go, you can forget about the 200 bucks, and if you happen to pass any injured-and-crawling-for-help-old-army-buddies on the way to the door, don't give them a second thought, just save yourself...

Hot women aren't any harder to get or more psycho than any others, it's the individual...and this particular individual sounds like a time waster...


Good luck, DD...