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Who here has NEVER dated within your own race?

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  1. countingcrow

    countingcrow Member

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    I was listening to 104.1 KRBE this morning and they were talking to one of their interns who is on her way out and the conversation somehow turned to her (she is black) never having dated anyone within her own race. She said it wasn't intentional and that she isn't opposed to dating a black male; it just so happens that she hasn't to this point in her life. She said that most guys she dates are white. The hosts then asked listeners to call in if their dating history mirrored the intern's dating history and I was really surprised that there were as many to call in as there was.

    Now, I am white and I can honestly say that I have never dated a white girl. I've dated only hispanic girls. I prefer hispanic girls and hispanic girls seem to show the most interest in me. That's not to say that I'm opposed to dating a white girl; it just hasn't happened yet.

    Who here has not dated within their own race?

    And if you have stayed outside of your race, is there a reason why?
     
  2. Asian Sensation

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    I've never dated a Korean girl. I don't like them. I don't like most Asian girls period. I like everything else.... Mix, white, middle eastern whatever.
     
  3. lpbman

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    Question for those who have never dated their own race... How do you feel about your mother for a guy/father for a girl?
     
  4. dandorotik

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    I'll take everyone but the Irish.






    OK- everyone.
     
  5. Bandwagoner

    Bandwagoner Member

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    whats wrong with asians.
     
  6. Lil Pun

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    I'm mixed with white, black, and Native American. I've actually dated all those.
     
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    I'm half-Asian and half -white. I've never dated a half-Asian/half-white girl in my life.
     
  8. CriscoKidd

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    ditto.
     
  9. Asian Sensation

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    There's nothing wrong with them. Not to sound conceited they just have to really stand out (be hot) and a lot of them are just cute at most to me and more often then not they're just plain looking. Add to the fact they all kinda remind me of my younger sister ugh.
     
  10. Bandwagoner

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    whats the matter you don't like incest?
     
  11. RocketRaccoon

    RocketRaccoon Contributing Member

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    don't take that lack of experience to the grave with you. some of the most beautiful women in the world are hapa houli...

    ...and no, you can't date my sister. :D
     
  12. Rocket River

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    Honestly
    IMO
    People who refuse to date within there own race
    have some kind fo self hatred issues

    If I was dating a woman . . and she said she never dates someone of her own race
    I would have to mambo out of there

    Cause IMO . . she is damaged

    My general rule of thumb is
    Look at yourself in the mirror. . [if you are hetero sexual imagine a opposite sex version of yourself ... ]
    Ask yourself . . . . WOULD YOU DATE YOURSELF
    If you say know. . . .you got issues
    either
    1. Change the way you look
    or
    2. Change your standards

    Rocket River
     
  13. Hmm

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    sounds like you have the issues my man.... :eek:
     
  14. Hmm

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    woot... finally someone that doesn't like asian girls..
     
  15. Deckard

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    I wouldn't date a girl that would have me as a boyfriend.




    Seriously... this is a legitimate topic? I've been married for decades now, but dated for many years before taking the plunge, and dated different races. They are all capable of producing great beauty, both inside and out. Why should it matter what race someone is? Intelligence, attraction, and burning sexuality is where it's at. The rest is just the tint of the areola, the color and curl of her hair. The size and shape of her eyes. Are they blue? Brown? Green? If you can get lost in them, does it matter?

    Why does anyone care? A line in a song goes, "What's love got to do with it?" I would say everything.
     
  16. Drexlerfan22

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    I think I've dated all the major races several times, except for Native Americans, if you consider that a major one. Dated many white girls, a few black girls, a few Asians, one Latina, and one Indian.

    Hey, I'm living in Wisconsin. If you don't wanna date white girls in Wisconsin, well... you're sorta hosed. :p
     
  17. yuantian

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    tell me about it. :p
     
  18. CriscoKidd

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    uhm, you are way overthinking it. Some people are just attracted more to the features of certain races than others(and of course some are just way superficial). It isn't really that big of a deal though.


    And no way in hell would I want kiss a woman version of myself. Ewwww. Of course I can't imagine a woman version of myself without looking like a trannie, so w/e. :)
     
  19. Rocket River

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    It is like hearing a fat guy saying he hate fat girls
    then
    complain about why women so shallow and don't love him for his personality

    Rocket River
     
  20. CriscoKidd

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    Yeah, I see what your saying. It's just in your original post it sounded like you have a problem if you don't want to get in the sack with someone who looks to be your twin.

    I personally just grew up in an area predominately hispanic and love the latinas. In general I find white women to be kind of plain, but that doesn't mean I would have NEVER dated one, it just worked out that way. It might sound corny, but personality can change a lot. As long as I don't find a woman unattractive, personality comes more into play than hotness imo. Of course, the hotter the better.
     

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