When you are around people of the other gender how do think the see you? Also is it the image you are trying to convey? I think that people think im a nervous person. But I think that girls like the nervous dork in me a little bit. I guess thats why i usually let the girl make the first move. Its not really how i want to convey myself but thats what ends up happening.
Let me just tell you from past experience...if you keep waiting for the girl to make the first move you may be waiting for a long time in some cases. While they may like the "nervous dork" in you they also like a man with confidence. Don't let opportunities pass you by.
I might get those shoes... I knew I should have brought my other handbag. These shoes are killing me. Hey there is my friend. Geez she look nice....the b****. Oh look, I want to get those shoes.
lots of girls that have liked me say that they think i'm the funniest person they've ever met - and that's what got them interested. but the thing that they liked best about me was that i have a whole other side that not many others see and how i can communicate and connect on a deeper level. oh, they also like my confidence -- at least thats what a few have said.
3814 responded to what the thread is about. its not about being modest. its about what you think female/males think about you.
That's actually a good question. I have friends of 10+ years that I consider very close, and I still don't really know EXACTLY what they think. One thing I DO appreciate though--I've found that even if you're not a really attractive dude, if you can make a girl laugh on a consistent basis you can become physically attractive to her. Thank God I was born a man...that's why men have a sense of humor and women wear makeup.
they also like my ass and the way i walk - oh, and they like my eyes, my ripped biceps and my abs of steel. not to mention my tight ass - oh wait, that's my dream
that's funny. when i was breaking up with my gf of last year. i was talkin to her while she was sitting but i was standing. and i swear she couldn't take her eyes off of that area. so while giving my reasons and stuff, i paused for a sec, cleared my throat and said..."excuse me...but my eyes are up here"...she went beat red. haven't really talked to her since...but i got a few letters from her tryin to get me back.
to overgeneralize others' impressions of me, I'm the girl who always blends in, I rarely ever stand out, and I usually try not to. If anyone talks to me, its probably because I look like someone they knew, or I look familiar, and then we figure out that they don't know me.
You guys get looks to the area too? Other day I was at a mall, and this girl is just staring there from a distance, until she comes real close, and I give her a "what the HELL are you thinking?" look, and she gives a "uhhh, I....umm, uhhhhhh" look. I thought they only checked out the other side, and even THAT was rare.
I am told that i am really nice, I am known as the nice guy. Inside, Ican be really really nervous when making moves on a woman, but on the outside I try to portray that I am pretty confident. So far, it's been good for me. Looking forward to coming back to the Tx.
