Came across this list years ago (I believe on thechive) and found it pretty interesting. Here it is on another site: http://themetapicture.com/top-37-things-dying-people-say-they-regret/ 1) Not traveling when you had the chance. Traveling gets harder as you get older, as more people depend on your presence, day-to-day and it ends up becoming more expensive to bring more people with you. 2) Not learning another language. You probably took years of another language in high school. You should put it to good use. 3) Staying in a bad relationship. It may feel hard to get out of a bad relationship, but it's not worse than staying in it and wasting everyone's time. 4) Forgoing sunscreen. It may not seem like much, but sun damage adds up over the years, causing wrinkles and discoloration. 5) Missing the chance to see your favorite musicians. You never truly know when your favorite band might break up, so seize the day. 6) Being afraid to do things. Fear can paralyze us, but we can't let it. 7) Failing to make physical fitness a priority. As you get older you'll realize how important it is to take care of your body. 8) Letting yourself be defined by gender roles. Define yourself, don't let society do it. 9) Not quitting a terrible job. You may need to pay rent or provide for a family, but you can't force yourself to be miserable every day. 10) Not trying harder in school. Grades are important, but what's more important is learning how to apply yourself and be dedicated. 11) Not realizing how beautiful you are. There are many definitions of beauty and you shouldn't think you're unworthy of someone's attention. 12) Being afraid to say "I love you". Loving another person is a precious gift, even if that same love wasn't returned. 13) Not listening to your parents' advice. They have a lot more experience than you'll want to give them credit for. 14) Spending your youth being self-absorbed. There is more to the world than just you and eventually you'll realize that. 15) Caring too much about what other people think. When you're older, you'll realized that the opinions of others don't factor into your true happiness. 16) Supporting the dreams of others over your own. Being nice is one thing, but sacrificing your own happiness isn't worth it. 17) Not moving fast enough. Don't hesitate to make decisions, you'll end up regretting wasting time. 18) Holding grudges, especially against those you love. Choose to let go of your pain, instead of dwelling on it. 19) Not standing up for yourself. Just because others may disagree with you, it doesn't mean you have to abandon your principals. 20) Not volunteering enough. There are countless reasons to help other people, especially when they are needy. 21) Neglecting your teeth. Flossing and brushing may seem annoying, but it's much better to take care of your teeth while you're young instead of losing them later. 22) Missing the chance to talk to your grandparents before they die. They hold a lot of knowledge and they will only be around for a little while. 23) Working too much. You're going to miss the good parts of life, or be too stressed to enjoy them, if you do. 24) Not learning how to cook one good meal. It'll add to your family and friend get togethers more than you can ever imagine. 25) Not stopping to appreciate the moment. Quit texting or taking pictures and realize what you are doing when you are doing it. 26) Failing to finish what you start. Every day is an opportunity that shouldn't be squandered. 27) Never mastering one awesome party trick. This seems silly, but just think of how many amazing memories you can create. 28) Letting yourself be defined by cultural expectations. If your family or country thinks you should do something for a career, you're not forced to. Never. 29) Refusing to let friendships run their course. Sometimes people drift apart. Forcing that connection could do more damage than good. 30) Not playing with your children enough. Kids are joyful and innocent. You should be choosing to fill your life with this joy, not avoiding it. 31) Never taking a big risk (especially in love). Taking a bigger risk can pay off more than taking a smaller one. 32) Not taking the time to develop contacts and network. It may seem like schmoozing, but it'll help your career in the long run. 33) Worrying too much. Worrying, especially about things that haven't happened yet, is useless. 34) Getting caught up in needless drama. Drama can be addictive, but there is no point. Don't get off on how bad your day is. 35) Not spending enough time with loved ones. We are all on this earth for a limited amount of time, don't take that for granted. 36) Never performing in front of others. This may not be your calling, but trying it at least once is an important life experience. 37) Not being grateful sooner. Learn to say thanks and learn to mean it. So many parts of your life will improve if you do.
There is a nurse who spent several year helping people in their final 12 weeks. These are the 5 most common regrets she noted: I remember reading this years ago, changed my life. Once mythical beliefs are out the window, these are the only things that matter. Don't be an employee your whole young life. Don't underestimate how obsessively hard you'll work at something you just love to do. Bet on yourself, just like the owner of the company you work for did. Live with the fewest objects possible, your mind will feel lighter and quicker and more relaxed. If you're not sure about what you love to do, look back at your childhood. Ask your parents and siblings. Ask people what they would do if they didn't need money. If you didn't need money, what would you do tomorrow. Do that, and do it better than anyone else, then sell that experience to someone. In the real world, that will take time, but you have to start planning. Plan your exit now. You must have a plan otherwise you'll get stuck, and you'll be thinking about that list of 5 things eventually.
My grandmother turned 91 yesterday, she's at home and relatively spry, and she would probably kick all of your asses.
