Because I'm miserable, depressed and I can't sleep. Is there anything better to cure yourself of emo-ness? (Other than stuff your face in ice cream cause that's not for me.)
going out for a walk in clear crisp morning...always does wonders to clear your head of all that clutter...i know walking sounds old fashioned but it is really one of those simple pleasures...
sleep with his best friend, that'll show em who's the boss everyone has their own ways of coping with a heart ache. finding a new s/o might help
It's so complicated because it doesn't involve cheating. We're just not on the same page like we used to be. I get frustrated because he goes out drinking/smoking with friends and then drives home. It worries me to death, but it seems there's nothing I can do to stop him. He says I nag him for it and its getting old. He doesn't think there's anything wrong with what he's doing and thinks I'm being unreasonable. I tell him drink all he wants as long as he's not driving. I'm always available for designated driving. Usually things like this blow over in less than a day. This has been going on for a couple weeks now. Sighhhhh. Driving children to school now...
basically, you two are drifting apart. why don't you go drinking with him? that'll solve the problem. if he's been doing this before and you're recently complaining about it now, yea i would have to be on his side. otoh, if you've been complaining about it since you two have been dating, i think he would be wrong for not compromising.
But what if she's already giving up the backdoor and he'll just say BTDT? Perhaps mentioning a little ménage à trois will whet his appetite...
Gym is equivalent to playing basketball I guess, so you already have my solution. But I think I would more often just sit around and feel like crap unless I force myself out. Go talk to a friend or 2 that are right for the situation...that'll get you out and make you feel a little better (usually)
Clean break is best. Make a list of your life priorities. Focus on yourself. Only you can make you happy.
My choices to cure depression, in order: 1. Motorcycle 2. Guns (Shooting at something inanimate) 3. Physical labor (for me, it's gardening) 4. Alcohol (may be combined with #3) 5. Exercise
I've always complained when he did it which was only sporadically. Problem is, he started a new job and is bonding with new co-workers (one of whom I happen to know well enough to know he's NO good) that like to drink a lot. First time he told me one beer, I said fine. He shows up at my house saying "OMG I'm so drunk." Now he says he doesn't remember saying that and I was making a big deal over one beer... Is it really too much to ask a 19 yo male to drink responsibly? I'm starting to think so... I don't drink, so we tend to smoke together on weekends. But, he's stopped smoking as much and drinking more. I think he wants me to drink too... I think I'll end up spending most of my day at the gym. Already made one trip, have plans to meet a friend there later, contemplating going back right now.
someone is an alcoholic lol (or at least it seems like it) want him to stop? I'm 17 and i rarely have alcohol. Reason why? I went to this party one time, i got piss drunk.. like passing out, throwing up etc.. i woke up with the worst hangover in my life never do i want to experience that hangover again lol ever since then, its different
Unless he's ridiculously mature for his age.. yes, I think it might be too much to ask. Shoot, even the more mature guys at that age won't do everything responsibly. Just takes some time to get smarter..
so basically what im saying is make him happy for one night go out drinking and make sure he has the worst hangover ever lol
Ah, there's your problem right there. If you want stability, forget about this guy and add 10 years on to the age bracket. Maybe 20.
