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To Surprise or Not to Surprise

Discussion in 'BBS Hangout' started by heypartner, Sep 1, 2011.

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Surprise or Not to Surprise

  1. Surprise her

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  2. nah, You should probably tell her

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  1. heypartner

    heypartner Member

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    I'm flying to Boulder from Germany for my girlfriends birthday. We plan to spend 10 days together, and what not.

    But I had to change my flight and previously told her I would change it to the 15th, one day before her birthday. Turns out seats weren't available so I'm flying in on the 14th.

    So, should I tell her or surprise her.
     
  2. Blake

    Blake Member

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    Thanks for the heads up. I was planning on getting my stuff out of her place the morning of the 15th

    That could have been awkward
     
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  3. DarkHorse

    DarkHorse Member

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    Surprise her.

    Best case scenario: she's super happy to see you and you get awesome points.

    Worst case scenario: you discover the affair she's having and save both of you a lot of pain and suffering in the future.

    Win Win :)
     
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  4. Xerobull

    Xerobull ...and I'm all out of bubblegum

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    Long run, the worst case scenario is the best case scenario. As DarkHorse said, it's win-win.
     
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  5. heypartner

    heypartner Member

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    Apparently this is a not so cleverly disguised "Toss the softball to Blake" thread.

    nice one
     
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  6. no_answer

    no_answer Member

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    Don't surprise her because...

    a. She is cheating on your and you will catch her and your heart will be broken.
    b. She wants to be super sexy the day you come in, so give her some warning!
     
  7. DaDakota

    DaDakota Balance wins
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    HP,

    If you take your known relationship history into consideration, I would think you better tell her, just to be safe.

    DD
     
  8. Xerobull

    Xerobull ...and I'm all out of bubblegum

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    b. may be true.
    a... it's always better to be informed than to live in ignorance.
     
  9. Rashmon

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    Burst through the door in a hockey mask and scream, "Surprise!"
     
  10. Ziggy

    Ziggy QUEEN ANON

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    Don't even tell her you're there a day early... period. Do some solo fun stuff. Pretend you arrived as regularly planned.
     
  11. No Worries

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    This is will give you the time to have a threesome with her sister and her mom!!!

    What could go wrong?
     
  12. Kam

    Kam Member

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    I could be in there with her sister and her mom. That could go wrong.
     
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  13. AroundTheWorld

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    Surprise her.

    Hopefully this is not what you will see...

    [​IMG]

    Doesn't the guy kind of look like Kam? :)
     
  14. dsnow23

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    Assuming she has a life outside of her long distance relationship, you should probably tell her to make sure she is available. She could have plans with friends or family or co workers.

    Plus you want to give her time to clean Blake's splooge off of the sheets.
     
  15. Cowboy_Bebop

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    Won't be a surprise if she is check out CF.
     
  16. Dairy Ashford

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    As long as she doesn't have to pick you from the dang airport.
     
  17. arkoe

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    Or this:

    [​IMG]

    (Also kind of looks like Kam.)
     
  18. Mr. Clutch

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    Change your ticket to 2 days early and kick Blake's ass.

    But don't post that you're doing that, otherwise you'd have to get a ticket 3 days early.
     
  19. Omer

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    Good one :)
     
  20. pradaxpimp

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    Surprise her.

    You'll probably find her cheating on you with another woman and 6 other men.

    GOOD LUCK!
     

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