On February 18, my grandfather died as a result of complications from bypass surgery. He was a very healthy 92 years old except for those clogged arteries. Only a year prior to the surgery, he was told to rest because he partially tore his rotator cuff when he fell off the roof while cleaning the gutters. He was a great guy with a terrific sense of humor. He worked hard in his life and always stood up for his beliefs. He and I did not see eye to eye on many things but I was the eldest grandson and lived close to them my whole life. In many ways, he treated me like a son rather than a grandson. Today, March 8, exactly 2 months to the day my grandfather passed, my grandmother left us as well. She had struggled on and off with arthritis and various problems that beset any normal 90 year old. For many years, she was like a second mother to me. I spent many sick days home from school and summers while my parents were working at their house mostly with her. She was maybe the most gifted listener I've ever known and certainly the most intuitive. It is her gift of being able to know someone instantly that made her special. They will both be missed by my whole family. They both lived full and happy lives and what and who they leave behind is a tribute to their resoluteness and hearty spirits. I hope they are holding hands and enjoying what is to come. Namaste. Speed on.
Jeff, You must have wonderful memories, God bless. I lost both of my grandfathers when they were in their fifty’s. ( too young ) S.J.
God bless them. I too lost my grandparents (all of them) before age 9. I hardly knew what it was like to have that extended family-- which is why I cherish my wife's lone living grandmother!
I'm terribly sorry for your loss, Jeff. I know how you feel. My Grandfather (mother's side) died in August, 2000, and my Grandmother died just four months later. When people stay together until so late in their lives, I think they just can't bear life without each other. In some sense, it's probably best that they died so close together. Still, I know that can't make it any easier for you. Good luck with everything.
Jeff - I only have one Grandparent left, Every Chance I get, I Visit my Grandfather who lives 900 miles away. He is one of the greatest men I have ever known. I only wish I can always follow in the footsteps he has set for me. Everyone should cherish the time they have with a person who has seen this World change over the years. God Bless you and your family. +
Jeff -- I'm so sorry for your loss. Death of a loved one is difficult. My grandparents all died when I was young...my mothers' parents were HUGE Astros fans...they passed on a love of baseball. I went to visit their graves the other day with my son... I still miss them, but I know they're enjoying eternity together. God bless, Jeff!!!
Jeff, you are a truly class guy, and I pray for the best regarding your situation. Only you can understand this pain and I remember your comforting words during the passing of my father and I really appreciated it. (as with all other posters)
Jeff, I'm sorry. It's good that your grandparents enjoyed such long lives and that neither had to suffer too long with the passing away of the other. I hope you find/have found peace knowing they both enjoy that now. I'm going to go call my grandmother.
What a blow, Jeff. It really doesn't matter how old they are when you are close to them, as you were. One of the great regrets of my life is that I waited so long to have my two children. They will never know their great-grandparents. Really sorry for your loss.
Condolences on your loss, Jeff. At least it looks like they lived long, full and happy lives and were good role models. (though I'm sure it's still hard to realize they're gone from this life) +++
My condolences, Jeff. Grandparents are a special part of a family; I'm sure you will have some great memories of them both. Know that they and you are in everyone's thoughts and prayers.
