Me and my ex has been broken up for about a month now, and now I see I don't won't to live without her. The reason we broke up was becasue we argue too much over little things. She wanted to get marry this Christmas, but at the time I wasn't ready. Now that I've seen what life is like without her I can see thats not what I want. If we can cut down on the arguments do you think I should got for it?
nope, your only feeling that because your used to each other and if yall get married it'll go back to what lead yall to break up.
Me and my woman had the same problem. You both just have to be mature enough to make the change. If you both just say that you will stop arguing, but don't put for effort, then marrying her will be a big mistake. Since me and my girl had a long talk, we haven't fought at all. Thats like 6 weeks without fighting. That has to be a record for us. There have been times where we feel a stupid argument coming on, but before it gets bad we talk it out and it never gets bad. I think it has actually brought us closer together. But I wouldn't marry someone just because you miss them. Maybe give it another shot, and see if you can get the stupid arguments under control. If you both can do it, and if you love her, then go for it.
Only if you sit down and have a long talk. Suggestion: Write down the specifics that both of you agree on and both of you sign it. Things you are going to do and not do. Including holding yourselves accountable to the list. And then pray for a lot of luck.
no. if you fight all of the time over little things, it's gonna get a lot worse when you are married for a few years. marriage is supposed to be permanent. Try dating again first... Good luck
It seems to me that you were already living the married life previously! *The above comment is not a shot at those who are married. I would have loved to have been married to the woman that left me. I couldn't force her though.
People would take you a lot more seriously on this board if you didn't insist on posting everything in italics. It's annoying.
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Will you marry me? I will if you don't ask me in italics. Nothing can separate the bond between me and my little italics. It's not that hard. Just don't ask me in italics and I will marry you. (Thinks hard. Even his thoughts are italicized.) No.
