Ok, thank you all for your "input". I was hoping to get a little more discourse on WHY there's appeal in our culture, but thanks anyway. So, on a more personal note, part 2 - My wife has very small breasts, esp. since our second child. She's also VERY sensitive - and not in a good way. She doesn't want any attention there. I'm reasonably creative with other options, but find that somewhat annoying. My question "why" before also indicates an interest in a re-direct. Your sage advice appreciated. Not you, baqui99 . Not the right answer .
They actually shrunk after childbirth? Is that common? (Meaning even smaller than before she was pregnant.)
Pasox, Im no skin doctor, or any other kind of doctor... but I would think it would feel good to her atleast for a few nights, if you get some massaging oil and massage them for her. I mean you can make it as romantic and passionate as you believe she would like. But I believe if you got her alone, and massaged her whole body, really focusing on the area around the breast then she would enjoy it. That's just my 2 cents though. Might be the worse 2 cents thats ever been given. Good luck, man.
"my name is peaches and i'm the best. all the dj's want to feel my breasts. hiccup hiccup hiccup hiccup hic hiccup hiccup hic." peaches from "coming to america"
I gather she's nursing? What was the behavior after the first child? In my experience with two women and four chldren, the woman will want those breasts to be hers and hers alone for awhile! Understandable but frustrating nonetheless.
Is it possible that she is uncomfortable with the way they look now and uses the "sensitivity" issue as a way to not talk about it? I know a womens breasts can change after pregnancy and especially after nursing and I was just curious if you thought she may be uncomfortable with the way they appear to her. Good Luck