At age 4 success is . . . not peeing in your pants. At age 12 success is . . . having friends. At age 16 success is . . . having a drivers license. At age 20 success is . . . having sex. At age 35 success is . . . having money. At age 50 success is . . . having money. At age 60 success is . . . having sex. At age 70 success is . . . having a drivers license. At age 75 success is . . . having friends. At age 80 success is . . . not peeing in your pants.
Glad to see that losing one's virginity is considered more of a "success" than getting like a college degree or a good job... "Yea, I could have gotten that job on Wall Street and be making the big bucks, but I decided to be a gigolo, instead. But what the hell, I am a success!" [size=1/2] This post is not meant to be derogatory toward the thread starter, but attitudes like having sex at 20 makes you a success, whether serious or joking, are what is wrong (partially) with our society today [/size]
Eh..I knew someone would say something like that. I know you're just joking, SJ, but it really bothers me that there exists this mentality of someone being a "loser" because they happen to wait to have sex until they are married. How that makes someone not a successful person is beyond my comprehension. I know, I know, Rocketman Tex's initial post was in jest, but I still have a problem with that for some reason. Oh, BTW, it's been about 7 months and I don't miss it at all. If I did, I would be married to this chick now & I'm certainly glad that DIDN'T happen.
Purely in jest, but I can see why someone wouldn't find parts of it funny. If it offended you, I apologize.
Manny, I have a lot of respect for someone who waits until they are married. I honestly don’t think I could wait if I were single again. Only if I really liked her and she made me wait, I would respect that. But I’m definitely to weak to be the one insisting on waiting. I don’t know about most people about being a “loser” , I think it’s a maturity thing. btw, hope this isn’t to personal, how do you feel about taking care of your own business ?
Well, SJ, I am mainly disgusted with the overall attitude that our society has today when it comes to this topic. I mean, A.C. Green, gets derided and made fun of because he waits until he is married which was like 37 to have sex. I just don't understand why he was derided? Does it make these other people feel better about themselves to make fun of someone who hasn't done something that they have done? Hell, anyone who lives in a big city could go and find themselves a hooker and perform the act, so they could now say that they were no longer a virgin. I guess I'm old-school, but I always thought that you had sex with someone that you truly loved, not because you wanted to pump your ego up or you can join some "club" in making fun of those who haven't had the experience. I had posted an article a little after 9-11 that talked about these "terrorist breeding schools" over in Pakistan. The author of the article stated that all these young boys approached him for sex after school was out because they were so convinced that is all Americans do...f*ck - all the time at any place with anybody. Granted, they also have some other warped ideals, but those have to do with their fanaticism about their religion. I know that is an extreme example, but I'm pretty sure that other countries out there aren't too keen on our "morals' when it comes to this. Now, this is not meant to blast you or Rocketman Tex or anyone here. It is just frustration on my part that has been lingering for some time & what better outlet to release that than the good ole BBS of clutchcity! I'm afraid that I don't know what you mean here...you'll have to clarify a little bit before I can answer you.
Oh, is he asking if I'm king of my castle? Master of my domain? No comment! Well, really, it is too personal to discuss here, and I don't want to get the site in trouble by talking about a really explicit subject like that.
