Recently been seeing probably the most amazing girl I have ever met. Harvard educated, going to law school, working litigation, extremely intelligent, witty, sarcastic, hilarious. And the best rack I've ever seen, for an asian. After going out a couple of times, she let me walk her home(nyc), and had a great night. An absolute freak in bed. I've taken her out a few more times since then, going to dinners instead of just drinks. That's when she told me she isn't interested in a relationship or "dating", just friends with benefits. This obviously wouldn't be a problem if I didn't like her so much. I hate to sound like a b****, but this isn't a situation I've found myself in before. I'd appreciate some advice on changing her mind. So far the advice I've gotten from my buddy has been, "Lay down some good ****, about 20 times, and she will want a relationship then." This is probably a good time to mention that she is also extremely promiscuous, amoral, and most likely a sociopath. In fact, in her own words, a "highly functional sociopath". Just "good ****" is probably not going to cut it. By the way, should these traits give me pause in pursuing her? Most definitely. But alas. #YOLO
you're getting action...with someone you find extremely attractive...why are you complaining again??? lollllll and besides...looking at it from a long term perspective...if you did get into a serious relationship with a woman like this...do you think she wouldnt cheat on you??? Just accept the a$$ and go out and find a woman with better class..
I swear to ZEUS, y'all don't know women. Dude. Join the NO-FAP club, make sure your PP is always the most erect at all times, do her WELL, and she won't want to go with no other man. Follow your buddy's advice. Also, earn more money and talk more about your money with her. She will know you're good to go. Won't want to go with anyone else.
Yeah this. You're banging a hot Asian sociopath. That's what we all strive for. But that's just not good enough for you apparently. Besides: Banging a sociopath > dating a sociopath And it's not even close. Just enjoy it.
you didnt keep reading to the more pertinent statement that was...present behavior is often an indicator of future action...if she is sexually promiscuous, etc etc...that doesnt really change once you put a ring on her finger... And for a woman that is just looking for friends with benefits...is just in transition relationship wise...sadly she is using you as a means of getting from one point to another...best if you understand that and move on for something better rather than getting you nutz crushed...when she finds someone she likes...
I agree with your friend. Women in that age range (I'm assuming late 20s, early 30s) are like 16 year old teenage boys. Anyway just curious, what ethnicity Asian is the "best rack on an Asian girl"?
Amen to that. Tested and approved. To the OP, if I was you, I'd tell her "O.K.", play it extremely light, and if all is well and you act like a man, quickly she'll cave in. Women catch feelings way faster than men. Just don't **** it up fiending on this girl. Make her set-up rendévous, don't cuddle, don't spend the night. **** her and leave. She'll want more if you do it right.
Put a Jeremy Lin mask on while doing her and see if she changes her mind. If that doesn't work try a Mark Zuckerberg mask.
