And she said that "vanilla" sex is out the window. She then proceeded to state that sex with kink is the best. So my question is if any of you gentleman or ladies have experienced kinky sex and what was it like? What are some pros and cons? Thank you in advance.
Oh btw this is her personal preference....nothings going to happen between me and her...just general inquiry
Be careful. To most women, kink means role playing, blind folds, and handcuffs...not porno style ass to mouth.
Most girls who say this do not mean they like whips and chains, from personal experience. What they like is for you to be rough with them. They want you to be mildly sadistic. You obviously shouldn't hit them or torture them, but you should consider: a) biting their lips b) sex without kissing them c) pulling their hair d) slapping their ass e) moving them around forcefully f) holding down their wrists or feet h) putting your hand on her throat but not pressing These are all acceptable to most women and really aren't that kinky. If you think she is really that kinky, you should ask her if it's cool that you: a) buy some handcuffs and whips b) make a safe-word and do some heavier choking c) agree beforehand that she is going to act like she doesn't want you, but basically play out a rape scenario Again, I think most girls who use the word kinky are talking about the first options. Girls will usually admit they are into role play or S&M if they mean the latter.
Wait a second... I didn't realize that your thread title is "So I was talking to this white girl about sex..." Are you seriously trying to make this a racial thing? If so, that's moronic. White girls are usually just as kinky as girls of any other race. Do you mean "this nerdy white girl" or something like that?
She probably means a setup like this one: Spoiler [Don't know if anyone would be offended by nude legos]
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She's lying! Most I've met that say they are into the kinky stuff put up a front and when the time comes, it's vanilla. It's the quiet ones that hit you with a BANG when you least expect it.
