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Six months and I still haven't moved on

Discussion in 'BBS Hangout' started by Outlier, Jan 28, 2012.

  1. Outlier

    Outlier Member

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    what does it have to take to completely move on?

    why do i feel like every girl i meet can't give me the same happiness she gave me?

    my emo thread for the night
     
  2. Nook

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    Suck it up.
     
  3. rawool

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    Time will heal those feelings, bro. Takes time to replace those memories with newer (and hopefully better) ones.
     
  4. Pizza_Da_Hut

    Pizza_Da_Hut I put on pants for this?

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    That just tells me your friends suck. You need to have fun, and that is their department. It'll get better with time.
     
  5. Ubigman

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    how does a man fall victim to the power of the mack?
     
  6. Mr. Clutch

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    6 months is not a long time.

    It's tough advice to follow, but be patient.
     
  7. Outlier

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    You know what the funny thing is..

    her mom texts me out of nowhere, and says the guy she cheated on me with and her broke up.. and I'm like.. what the hell do you want me to do?

    Still, it's flattering.. that the mom probably favors me to text me like that.

    her sister also keeps in constant touch with me. it drives me crazy but what's a friendly guy like me to do?
     
  8. UTKaluman597

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    its been 6 months? man up.
     
  9. Xsatyr

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    Threads like these remind me why I quit dating exclusively in 2007. Hang in there man.
     
  10. YaosDirtyStache

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    you gotta go AtM with a girl...once you find a chick thatll go AtM you keep her. Until then you keep searching.

    A. T. M.
     
  11. Deckard

    Deckard Blade Runner
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    Just keep your mind open to other possibilities. You never know when you might meet a chick that will turn your head. You could bump into her at a grocery store. She might move into the house in front of your garage apartment. You could meet someone at a park or at a party. You might run into a girl that you knew a long time ago, and haven't seen in a while, and this time things click. Someone might take a seat on a bus, or a tram, and there's an open seat next to her. Grab the seat and strike up a conversation. All those things happened to me, and led to a relationship. One of those relationships I still have. I live with her and we have two kids. Just have an open mind and this will pass. Start believing that. It'll help.
     
  12. Outlier

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    what the hell is AtM?

    now her sister is telling me to text her. but if i feel that if i do, i'll either get snubbed, or she'll just want to be friends. or in the small chance that she'll want to be with me again, it will be like destroying my dignity.. by settling with a girl that cheated on me once.. but damn i still love her to this day.. even if she left me hanging so COLD
     
  13. Xsatyr

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    ass to mouth
     
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  14. YaosDirtyStache

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    Google "Urband Dictionary A.T.M."
     
  15. Outlier

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    damn it. lol
     
  16. Batman Jones

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    Time is a healer. Pain is just part of it. There's nothing you can do but wait. You'll feel better. It will just take a while.
     
  17. Batman Jones

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    No wonder your stache is dirty. (You're doing it wrong.)
     
  18. Mr. Clutch

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    HEEECCCK NO!

    Going back to the girl who cheated on you? Maybe if SHE comes back to YOU and begs for forgiveness.

    No way should you be taking the initiative in texting her.

    Date other women. Hopefully you run into one you are so crazy about you'll stop thinking about the ex.
     
  19. Shaud

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    Damnit this board is soft.
     
  20. ThaShark316_28

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    Sarcasm or not, **** it...this **** true as ****. Good God, people.
     

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