So I've been talking to this girl now for almost 3 months. We talked on the phone and texted a lot the first month. By the time we went out on our first date we were very comfortable. She is a single mom. We literally talked everyday. Recently however we hardly talk. Maybe once a week. I must mention that October was pretty tough on her. She was evicted from her apartment. I helped her move out of her apt. She moved back to her parents. Her car was almost repossessed. I did lend her 200 dollars to help her out. I also hooked her up with a job where I work. I see her every Monday mornings now. I've mentioned that we should go out again but she says she is busy. Can someone really be that busy where they don't have a couple mins to send a text to say hey. I am getting that vibe where a girl is no longer interested. Keeps telling me the I'm busy. Hardly calls or texts me. I don't want to come off as being needy but I've noticed a change. I've also noticed on her Facebook that she is going out with her sister to the local nightclubs. I'm not a bf. But Im just trying to make sense of it.
Single mom probably thinks you're not mature enough or are coming on too fast with the money, job and other help. Me personally, I don't involve myself in baby mama drama, so good luck.
Go with your gut. Sounds to me like she is blowing you off. Don't for a second believe that you have a leg up with her just because you helped her out when she was in need. It may be hard to believe, but you aren't likely the only male helping her financially and such.
from what you've said it definitely seems like she isn't interested anymore. sounds like a classic case of falling down a rung on the ladder.
She's "busy" but has the time to go out to local nightclubs with her sister? I call bull****. Sounds like she's blowing you off, and not in the good way.
It still hurts. Would you two give us a lil' bit more time? Grieving doesn't own a watch or a calendar.
yeah, but you are lying to yourself. You want to be "a bf" and she knows it. Just get it over with and tell her. You get a negative response, then move on.
It's been three months? At this point. Just tell her. Demand the truth, you'll regret it later if you don't.
if you helped her out and now she is blowing you off that sucks. but my man do not stress out about a girl that you were never deeply involved with. save that stress for someone that you were actually involved with. there are a ton of girls out there, many that wouldnt (blow you off) and would look forward to you calling.
Wait what?... I'm confused... They broke up?... When did that happen? Why isn't there a thread exclusively dedicated to this?...
