Since we had the . . . How many sex partners thread here is the companion thread I know in 'THE RULES' it says a woman should wait 90 days before having sex with someone they dating Do you have any such rules your self? Do have a Wait time .. before you make a move? Do you have a wait time. . that if you ain't got it by then. . you move on? Rocket River
Never had anything like a "wait time," RR, but if anything, I was too much the gentleman to be pushy. Most of my success was due to just being a groovy cat.
until getting married. If they're not willing to do that, we are not going to be a couple. Anyone compatible with me will have the same ideals anyway.
i never had a "wait time" either. Im not pushy, but I do tend to get carried away when things get a little hot and heavy...of course thats if its mutual I will wait for "the sign". 90 days?! holy crap, thats excessive. However, it is nice when a girl does wait a little. Makes you know she's not too big of a slut
Yeah I was gonna make that point. If a girl sleeps with me too early, I'm like....does she have issues?
Actually, 90 days is usually about where I'm at. Though I think I'd probably be cool with it after 60 days, if I'm really head-over-heels. I worry about a girl who insists on having sex really early on. If the girl is disinterested in me just because I want to wait a couple months, that tells me sex is all she's interested in... and that ain't me. I'm looking for a real relationship, not a fling. And there's no timer for "moving on if I haven't gotten it yet." I basically made up my mind really early on that outside of making sure I wasn't having sex with someone I just met a week ago, I was going to let the girl decide... just do what's comfortable for her. If I really love someone, I don't want to pressure them into anything. If it were left up to me though, 3 months seems just about right to get started.
She likes me? How can she possibly know me before we have even had a date? Makes me wonder how many times she has done it...or if she's needy. And in my limited sample, girls that wait are worth it.
Wow, it's not often that I post essentially the same thing someone else posted at the exact same time. Maybe you're my long-lost triplet, seeing as I already have a twin.
ASAP! In all seriousness it all depends on the girl and so many other factors. Is she crazy and is she going to jump on you like a piranha if you give it to her once? How convenient is it? i.e. do you have to make an extended effort with dinner and hanging out and all that bs? Do you really want to hit it or will you regret it? Do you really want to hit it even if you don't have a condom? How about no condom and it's also that time of month? Yikes...
totally. I always think, "now am I just that smooth and irresistable that she is breaking all her moral and ethical standards" (which is very possible ) or is just just a skank that did this to another dude last night? but I have always been much more interested and have gone on to much more meaningful relationships with those who waited a little. That being said, it was just like 2 weeks and dating/hanging out every other night. one ex, that made me wait for a while, went down on me before we had sex....and she swallowed! Awesome, no doubt, but that was the first girl that i had do that so i thought that it was more "riskey" at the time and I thought "how often does she do this?!". ohhh...when we were younger
