My friends and I were having a mild debate the other day on whether it is easier to get sex (in both one-night stands and in relationships) at our age (college-aged, ie 18-22) or if it is easier a little later in life when women are more mature (between the ages of 25-35). There were a lot of positives and negatives thrown around for both arguments. Younger Argument: Time of sexual discovery and alcohol flows freely, so inhibitions are lowered. Easier to find girls, more time to socialize. Girls hold the upper-hand though because they are in such demand and can afford to be picky. Also, around this age a lot of girls are still concerned about their reputation and don't want to be negatively labeled amongst their social group. Many girls will date older guys because they see them as more mature, however, you will rarely see a guy dating an older girl and younger girls are not ideal (might still be in highschool or underage). Older Argument: Women are more comfortable with their sexuality and know what they want (sexual maturity). Sex isn't seen as big of a deal as when they were younger and only had 1 or 2 partners. A moderately successful single guy will hold the upper-hand because they are in higher demand (women working against their biological clock to find a good man). A man can easily date a women within his age group as well as many years younger. Women aren't worried about getting a "reputation" because childish gossip is no longer prevalent. However, it might be harder to meet or find decent single women as you get older. What do you guys think? Is the ease of having sex higher at a younger or older age?
It's alot easier when you're married and don't have to go throught the dance everytime you want some. It's harder when you kids become toddlers because they're always busting in... almost no chance for Saturday morning just-woke-up canoodling.
If you're a man, it's easier when you're older and the women are younger. When you're a woman, I assume it's always pretty easy. Unless you're a fat and/or ugly and/or sober and/or selective and/or religious and/or independent woman. I don't know for sure though, because my operation has been postponed until I complete gender reassignment counseling. P.S. Dr. Wang assures me that I will have the best vagina EVER.
College aged girls are easier. Believe me, I live with about 600 horny 18 year-olds [meh, sad but true] in my dorm. And the fact that males are not allowed in here at night makes it even more enticing to sneak them in or stay at their apartment. Plus, in college girls are just beginning to taste freedom [i mean, they went to baylor...]. I know at least 10 or 12 girls who hadn't gotten drunk or slept around in high school, then they came here and tried it and now they do it regularly. I guess I wouldn't know about older women though. That's just my experience.
I need to run to a date, ironically, so I'll keep this short. (but will post more later. i have lots of thoughts on this.) easiest pickup is the old girl in young girl's bar. when you go out with a girl that's 29 and still does jello shots, it's almost a slam dunk. generally, i've found that women in their late 20s are more likely to have sex on their first date than women in their early 20s. it's almost like, "we're too old to be coy." But I'm also the shadiest guy I know when it comes to dating and women. (Here's an article I wrote a while back on 10 dates for less than 10 bucks. actually, i think a few bbsers helped me with some of these ideas. thanks for that.) 10 dates for 10 bucks (shady)
Unless you are living some kind of high fancy sex in the city lifestyle when you are in your 30s-40s then the real question is... Is it easier to get ass at say ages 16-20 (drivers license to early college). Or after 21 when you can hit up the bars and take home the drunkies. And dont be offended ladies. Yall want it just as bad and you know it.
God! That sounds like me in college! Er....I know a guy that happened too. Define "easier" Personally, being in a theater program (and theater in general) in college and professionally, it was/is quite easy. Being married makes it quite easy as well. I like the married chase better.
“Before you get married, all there is is talk about the wedding — the — plans, you know, and sex talk. You know, when can we DO it? Are your parents going to be out so we can DO it? Where can we DO it? Then, after you get married, she's there all the time; when you wake up in the morning, she's there. When you come home from work, she's there … There's no more sex talk. Nothing else to talk about … But it's really good, you know, it's ok, it's good.”
I found it easier in college and then it seemed harder in my mid 20's and now it seems a little easier now. I'm far from a Lothario though but I often think if I knew what I know now when I was younger I would be ue up to my armpits in booty.
Dont matter how old are young it depends on the "person" My friends has been dating/flirting from 16-32 now and still are having it easy with girlsss. One is probably up to 30+ I guess it all depends on how you are towards them and lure them. If your shy/quiet then you'll have the same NO LUCK till ur 40yr old virgin.
I had the argument with a girl going to St. Edward's Uni. whom I met through IRC. I visited her there while going to college myself, and she wanted to do it right away. I was like: "WTF? We just met, ho" and she asked why I was so SHY. I said: "I am not shy, I just don't want to do it the same night we meet. What is this kind of crap you're pulling on me?" SHe was pissed because I answered "NO." to her when she wanted to do it. She even had the audacity to say "Isn't this what you wanted?" I said NO to that as well. She was a good-looking girl, and I thought "why in the heck doesn't she wait? She can have any guy she wants, and she wants to give it up that fast? No way, man. There's something fishy about this." She went on to meet this dude whom I thought was going to leave her because he was in another town... she was all into him and once even told me "you're just mad because I am having sex more often than you" just like that, after I told her to be careful and not to "give it up" to any guy right away. Alas, that guy left her pregnant and now that child is about 7 years old, because he was married and couldn't be with her. In the end, she was miserable. All in all, I am glad I didn't do something with her, but I will agree with most college dudes here that college is when you "get it" the most. She wanted to do me in her dorm, no less, right after she had sent her roommate to get us a drink from the store... she wanted me and her to "do it" fast.
Classical definition. Eager to have unattached sex. Standards are lowered, and life-altering mistakes are made.
