[S.O.S] Do you hold a grudge towards your Ex?(pics included)

the reason she said she left you was definitely just a cop-out.

can you elaborate as to why you would see her again at your follow ups?

 

I'm sure trying to smear her publicly on this BBS will help.

 

well, isn't that what one does when one holds a grudge?

 

that blows, how can she not "handle" you going through treatment when she is familiar with it all . how r****ded.

if i was in your position i'd be pissed at her but just let it go. Who cares if she is wracking up awards, she is a phony and a hypocrit. Get over it, she is a bad person no matter what she 'accomplishes' and what award she gets.

i'd probably have a hard time takling to her without making a smartass comment like, thanks for being there for me...or something like that. But i'd not even want to talk to her.


I dont hold a grudge toward my ex. Hard to hold a grudge against someone not very smart and wants to be taken care of like a baby...its not her fault.

 

cmon, Justin's career didn't even start until after he left N'sync!

 

Just sayin' - bitterness has been linked to bad health.

Be careful how long you hold a grudge...

 

Why hold a grudge? Just enjoy your life, and don't worry about negative feelings or thoughts that will just bring you down. She had her reasons, even if the one she gave you was complete BS! Why would you have wanted to stay with her anyway? You don't want someone to stay with you out of pity right?
I'm sure you can find someone who is going to truly care and stick by you even through the roughest of times. I can't imagine how it must have been to go through what you went through or are still going through. But stay positive.

Or...... call her a slut when you see her.

 

Nope, I just miss her.

 

if nothing else, break up with him but at least be there to support him as a friend.

 

Hell, I hold grudges against girls I haven't even dated.

 

good point...

anyway I don't hold a grudge against my ex. I did for a couple years after she broke up with me. But I grew up and understood that she had her reasons even though they didn't make sense to me, or I didnt agree with them. I've talked to her since then, but it was just for my own benefit, in the sense that I wanted to know I truly let it go and forgave her.

But if I see your ex I hope you don't mind me being an ******* to her. She obviously doesn't care about anyone but herself.

 

i'm not so sure. I MIGHT have some resentment towards my ex but that's in the past. i'm moving on with someone that finally make me feel alive.

anyhoo, you're way better off with someone who will truly love you through sick times.

 

I probably held a grudge until I married someone else. Now I rarely think of her anymore.

Time heals.

 

My ex gf dumped me in '92, very abruptly. I loved her more than anything. She was everything I ever wanted. That breakup hurt more than I can describe.

That was 15 years ago. I'm now almost 40. I have a wife. Two kids. A house. A career.

I've moved on.

And ya know what?

I still hurt from that breakup every day. Every friggin' day. For 15 years, I've hurt every day.

Yeah. I hold a grudge. I've accepted it. I've moved on.

But some pains just never go away.

 

So...is she still single?

 

Who are you asking?

 

Screw you A-Train!

 

wow.. thats... deep. Time to fire up the Fender.

 

I hope I won't experience that.