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[Relationships] Looks like my ex-fiancee is now cheating on her boyfriend with a girl

Discussion in 'BBS Hangout' started by Drexlerfan22, Sep 21, 2007.

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  1. Drexlerfan22

    Drexlerfan22 Member

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    ...and I'm actually a little surprised to find that it doesn't make me feel any better about the whole thing. It actually makes me feel worse. Is that weird?

    I mean, people have been telling me I should feel good about this... that it proves I was right all along about her, and that she's a totally crazy b*tch who doesn't deserve the time of day. But instead I find two feelings prevail... one is that I feel very sorry for her because of what she's doing to herself and other people. As crazy as she is, and as downright evil the things she's done in the past 6 months are... I don't enjoy seeing her screw up her life. Second, it just kinda makes me feel down on humanity in general. I mean, someone who's trashed someone's trust by cheating on them, then turning around and doing the same thing to the new boyfriend less than 6 months later? How did I ever want to marry this person?

    Don't get me wrong, I'm doing alright. Been on several dates since the breakup, and I've got another couple this weekend. But it still just saddens me... how can anyone have so very little regard for the feelings of everyone around them? How can people be this selfish and still sleep at night? :(

    The season needs to start already so I can get my mind onto something good...
     
    #1 Drexlerfan22, Sep 21, 2007
  2. codell

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    Sounds like you are dating to keep your mind off of it???

    If you are still feeling bad, you shouldn't be dating IMO.
     
    #2 codell, Sep 21, 2007
  3. moestavern19

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    Its hard to imagine someone you care/cared about in bed with another woman just doing unspeakable things to each other.

    I mean just think of the dispicable acts they could be doing.

    Think.

    About.

    It.
     
    #3 moestavern19, Sep 21, 2007
  4. Jeff

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    Another girl? Are they both hot?

    (sorry, couldn't help it) :)
     
    #4 Jeff, Sep 21, 2007
  5. Rocket River

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    This thread is useless without pictures

    Rocket River
    . . .just wanted to get that out the way
     
    #5 Rocket River, Sep 21, 2007
  6. Asian Sensation

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    Never has that statement been truer.
     
    #6 Asian Sensation, Sep 21, 2007
  7. AroundTheWorld

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    You beat me to it!
     
    #7 AroundTheWorld, Sep 21, 2007
  8. Hippieloser

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    This is why you never date someone who cheated on their last significant other. That ****'s a habit!
     
    #8 Hippieloser, Sep 21, 2007
  9. percicles

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    They're probably in the scissoring position as we speak.

    Disgusting.
     
    #9 percicles, Sep 21, 2007
  10. Drexlerfan22

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    That occurred to me, but I gave it three months without dating anyone before I got back in the game. I'm honestly not "feeling bad" about her specifically... I've been more-or-less "over her" for a good month I'd say. This happening just kinda makes me sad about the general state of humanity, just right at the moment. I don't expect the feeling to last more than a few days at least I hope.

    Unfortunately I didn't know about the first incident until after we were engaged, and I wasn't about to back out at that point.

    Oh, fine!
    CLARIFICATION: EX IS ON THE LEFT, GIRL SHE'S CHEATING WITH IS ON THE RIGHT
    First one's my ex. The other girl is pretty butch, but not exactly ugly...

    [​IMG][​IMG]
     
    #10 Drexlerfan22, Sep 21, 2007
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  11. codell

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    She is very handsome.

    Is that Clay Akin?
     
    #11 codell, Sep 21, 2007
  12. finalsbound

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    Ah, I love when pics ARE actually posted. :p
     
    #12 finalsbound, Sep 21, 2007
  13. Asian Sensation

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    Soooo the pic on the left is when she was bi and then the pic on the right is full fledged ........
     
    #13 Asian Sensation, Sep 21, 2007
  14. XxShadyPinkxX

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    If you took that pic of her when ya'll were together....how could you NOT know is my question? My gaydar is going off just looking at the pic.

    Anyways, if the guy she cheated on you with knew she was with you at the time, he got what he deserved. Karma will always get you.
     
    #14 XxShadyPinkxX, Sep 21, 2007
  15. conquistador#11

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    no no no. the pic on the left is the ex, the girl on the right is the girl the ex is cheating with.....at least i think that's how it goes .
     
    #15 conquistador#11, Sep 21, 2007
  16. Drexlerfan22

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    Indeed.

    Edit: Another clarification... I knew my ex was bi even a little bit before we got engaged. That's not what the thread is really about... it's just that I'm so disappointed she'd cheat on three consecutive boyfriends.
     
    #16 Drexlerfan22, Sep 21, 2007
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  17. KingCheetah

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    [​IMG]


    [​IMG]
     
    #17 KingCheetah, Sep 21, 2007
  18. Drexlerfan22

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    Neither would I, Cheetah. Neither would I.
     
    #18 Drexlerfan22, Sep 21, 2007
  19. Refman

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    Did you say three boyfriends?

    Did she cheat on somebody else with you? If so, none of this should surprise you. If she did it to somebody else, what makes you so damned special that she won't do it to you?
     
    #19 Refman, Sep 21, 2007
  20. percicles

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    I'd hit it.
     
    #20 percicles, Sep 21, 2007
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