relationship ?: can u b in luv but intimately incompatible?

When you say "intimate issues" do you mean issues in the bedroom? If so, I'd say "Yes" you can definitely love someone and not be compatible with them sexually. One of my best friends experienced this and despite the differences with his wife, they are still very much in love and happily married 10 years later (though there was counseling early on).

 

I don't think it's likely for the long haul. Either one will cheat on the other, or one waste a lot of time being insecure that the other is cheating on the one.

 

Thats what the swinger lifestyle is for.

 

"Being in love' is a common misnomer for a chemical hormone imbalance that causes irrational infatuation and absurd behavior.

Why should it be surprising that people make stupid decisions in the name of infatuation and end up getting matched up with incompatible personalities? Real love exists outside the boundaries of hormonal attraction, and smart people learn to choose intelligently before allowing hormones to shut down their normal cranial functions.

 

What about the other way around? I got lotsa those..

hit it and quit it.

 

I like my grass to be trimmed down to the soil.

 

This is quite different and, I'm sorry to say, doesn't bode well for the longevity of the relationship. Have you ever done anything to make her question your decision-making when it comes to women? How long have you been together? Sounds to me like she has trust issues that need to be resolved ASAP.

Realize that ANY successful relationship is going to require some compromise in "being true to yourself" in one way or another. It could be something major, like learning a new way to communicate with your spouse/partner, or it could be something minor, like not drinking out of the milk carton. Fact is, you'll have to be the one who makes the call whether or not the compromise is worth the relationship. I can say, however, that if my wife had told me that I can't talk to women at all, we would not be together today. I can't be with someone who doesn't trust me as much as I trust them.

 

also clutchfans, if you could answer these questions for me i'd greatly appreciate it:

what is love?
what is my purpose?
what is the meaning of life?
who is god?
when will chinese democracy actually come out?

kthxbai!

 

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Who knows.. not even this guy knows..

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You should ring up Doug Christie and ask him how he lives with his nuts in a clamp.

 

You can't get it up?

 

Sex is very important to me for a happy relationship. but I suppose if I really love a girl enough I may make some sacrifices

 

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There are options other than adolescent behaviour.


1. 'Intimate incompatibility' can change. In fact, being in love may be putting incredible pressure on the intimacy for one or both parties.
2. Unless you're attempting to put a square peg in a round hole, the 'incompatibility' can change.

 

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