Has any ever started dating a girl and had to deal with her crazy, obsessive, ex-boyfriend? I'm dealing with this now, and wanted to see how you guys handled the situation.
my gf that i have been with for over 4 years had one. she hated him. he was freaking crazy too. he wasn't violent but he was a good computer hacker. he had all of her passwords and accounts and stuff, so he would get on her messenger accounts and talk to people LIKE HE WAS HER! he was whacked. eventually he just gave up. also, he lived about a 100 miles away so there weren't any stalking incidents that i knew of. how bad is the guy you are dealing with?
Trick the ex-boyfriend into walking on your property, then knock it unconscious with a baseball bat or something. Bring it into the kitchen and get something like a butcher knife..............
I've dealt with that in the past, he kept bugging us for about 1 year then just dissappeared or gave up, most crazy Mofo's like that don't do that though, I say you get her to file some sort of restraining order.
You have three choices: Zero tolerance, dump her, or just ignore him until he goes away. What I would do depends on how much I liked the girl/how good the sex is. Zero tolerance would be being crazier than him. It's much like getting rid of a bully- stand up to the guy and he will probably go away. The other two options are pretty self-explanitory. On a side note, I dealt with a crazy ex once. I was spending the night at her apartment, and he drove by and shot the place up. I did the 'noble' thing and asked her to move in with me. I ended up kicking her out eight days later because she turned out to be just as crazy as her ex. You can't win with women sometimes.
Oh my! Your use of impersonal pronouns to refer to people is awfully scary. Kind of reminds me of this other guy:
My girlfriend had/has one. He used to call and harass her and her parents, he used to harass us whenever he saw us out in public, and he actually moved in two houses down from me. I just ignored him because that's what they want, you to react to what they are doing.
My girlfriend never wanted to answer the calls. We both knew it was better to ignore him because what he wanted was a reaction. He actually got married and divorced and was arrested for calling his ex-wife and doing the same thing and threatening her as well.
Oh, good luck with that, coma. Just for clarification : You say he calls your house, and follows you guys around, is that right ?
They aren't even her ex-boyfriends and they are psychos. But I'm the amazing D-fin and they tremble before me with fear.
