To question those who are wiser and been down this road before haha . After a year with a girl I'm starting to get scared on how to approach this, she is the most loyal girl in the world and would do anything for me... But she is insanely too jealous after a year, I can't even talk to other girls, and when we were apart last summer she had sleeping problems and ended up dropping a great amount of weight from depression. Any advice appreciated... And similar stories will be enjoyed.
So I'm guessing that ended being a great thing. Hahhaha, I mean amirite. b****es man........I'll see myself out.
I have been on both sides of this situation and I can tell you it hardly works out. At least not with both sides being happy, someone is going to have to sacrifice way too much. When I was younger I was the jealous type and could never actually appreciate my significant other. My actions would only push them away. I then started dating a girl who shared my traits and I saw just how ugly it was from the other side. I was disgusted with myself. If you can't trust someone then you can never really be in a loving relationship. If you want this to work then you have to confront her about it. You have to start taking steps together to ease her through her insecure emotions. Battling jealousy and obsessiveness is not easy and requires extreme patience. From my experience, it is not worth it.
I thought the thread title read overly obese girlfriends at first... Which is why I even clicked on this thread. The op confused me until I read the thread title again.
Haha well when she started at 110 and was getting around 95 it wasn't. And yea, I used to be jealous but really I don't care anymore it works out or it doesn't. I'm just afraid if we break up she will drop out of school ha. i'm about to graduate and I'm planning on either working under a professor in Spain teaching english or joining peace corps... I can't even imagine what will happen to her if we are still together. She trips about everything. And Moes.. Her grandmother already rejected me
Is she over 16? If so, drop her... that is not natural or appropriate, she has serious issues, the kind that never get better.
It is def not worth it in your case, you can't sacrifice your life for someone else. You will regret it. You will most likely end up resenting her if you stay close to home for her. If you manage to stay together while you leave, how do you think you will handle the long-term relationship yourself? Will you be loyal? Also insecure people are more likely to cheat themselves. I don't know your gf but obsesive people have a tendency to cheat. This is a recipe for disaster.
Well I dated a girl like that once, and her insecurities were because she was as hoe fo sho on the side, ha but right now this girl won't even go out if she isn't with me. Made me feel like **** over the summer when I was out bar hopping and she was at home reading books . So I know it's not the same thing. What really sucks also it comes down to, is it ****ed up to say I really just want to sleep around while I'm still young ha. i haven't messed up yet, but damn going to texas state makes it hard.
I had a relationship for over a year with a chick that was just nuts for me. As in she was driving me nuts! Very obsessed. The good thing about it was that she'd do anything sexually to please me. The bad thing was the rest of it. Without getting into a lot of detail, I'll just finish with this. When I finally bit the bullet and told her it was over (and to move out!), it was like a giant weight was lifted. Life was good again. There is more to a relationship than fantastic sex. I knew that before I met this chick, but blew it off for far too long. Besides, she needed someone who loved her. I never did. I never told her I did, either. She simply believed what she wanted to believe. Saying adios was doing her a favor.
That bolded part alone makes me think she will cheat. She will need someone to fill that void. That is exactly the type of girl I am talking about. You are young and you should enjoy it now; there is nothing wrong with that. I am 25 and have not been in an exclusive relationship since 2007. It feels good not to be arguing over petty stuff, I have been happier since. Do what you think will make you happy in the long run.
Ha yea, just scared about the toll it will be on her. I'm more than likely going to Spain when I graduate to work under a professor teaching English and that's when the decision will more than likely happen if we are staying together. It would just suck if we break up and I wasted my last semester of school in a relationship when I could have been pulling the jack hammer . But I'm never sure If I will do better, I've had lots of ****ty relationships in the past. I went about 2 years of just NSA not caring, and realized it wasn't fun anymore before i dated her.
My first g/f didn't allow me to eat at Hooters...it was that bad. My fiance now (I'm 23) understands me for me and just accepts who I am. Going to Grenada for medical school will be tough though. But if you truly love someone for who they our, you will learn how to adapt.
LOL! Had me cracking up with that response CCorn. Is the chick in question, the same one on your twitter profile?
