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On dating sites, what do you say when you talk to the women?

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  1. Cohete Rojo

    Cohete Rojo Contributing Member

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    It's not a good weekend for me to go out. But fortunately there are women on these various online dating sites to have conversations with. I am the type to act the fool at the club or wherever so sending women messages on these dating sites isn't a problem with my self-confidence.

    However, I can't quite figure out what I should really be saying to them. I know to talk about their interest and traits that they like in guys (such maturity...not here). What I am really finding awfully hard is that opening line, because that is the attention grabber.

    Maybe they are just mindfully about what is said as I am.

    Any tips from the clutchfan community?
     
    #1 Cohete Rojo, Jan 27, 2012
  2. Bandwagoner

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    ask glynch
     
    #2 Bandwagoner, Jan 27, 2012
  3. mylilpony

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    i tell them im an artist and want to draw them because they are beautiful.:p
     
    #3 mylilpony, Jan 27, 2012
  4. Mr. Brightside

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    This approach usually works well both in real life and online.

    <iframe width="420" height="315" src="http://www.youtube.com/embed/k5YyvW1Kk7Q" frameborder="0" allowfullscreen></iframe>
     
    #4 Mr. Brightside, Jan 27, 2012
  5. RV6

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    I would start with, "Are you a real person?"
     
    #5 RV6, Jan 27, 2012
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    Send them a message in their inbox saying

    Heyy there. :)
     
    #6 Rocketboi, Jan 27, 2012
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    When are you gonna let me tap that?
     
    #7 DonkeyMagic, Jan 27, 2012
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    Tell them you know the thadeus.
     
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  9. heypartner

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    poke them
     
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  10. what

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    you actually have to make the first move? girls generally fill my profile up and i can pick and choose whom i talk to.
     
    #10 what, Jan 28, 2012
  11. Jontro

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    Screw online dating sites. Yahoo chat is where it's at.

    The other day I was talking to this girl and she said she's 11 or something and insists that I come over to her place (across town) and get "jiggy wittit." Her exact quotes. Her parents are out for the weekend and told me to bring booze and condoms. I dunno, I tend to believe her. Should I go over guys?
     
    #11 Jontro, Jan 28, 2012
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    "Hey, you're really cute. I live in x. Are you free x? Maybe we can hang out. I want to check out x , they've got x ."

    It's a dating site. It's pretty obvious what the people there are for.
     
    #12 Dei, Jan 28, 2012
  13. Yao11

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    Don't forget DD. He's a straight up ladies man =p
     
    #13 Yao11, Jan 28, 2012
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    not sure

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    #14 heypartner, Jan 28, 2012
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    Are you wealthy?
    If yes, tell them how much you make.
    If no, lie.
     
    #15 Canadiandude, Jan 28, 2012
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  17. Yung-T

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    Sounds stupid but really is a good way, if she replies you know she likes what she saw from your profile.
    I don't know if the dating site shows a "users that visited your profile" feature, back when I used a social site it had that. I just visited profiles from girls that looked cute and didn't send them a message. They would see me on their visitor page and send a message because they liked my picture. It can't get easier.
     
    #17 Yung-T, Jan 28, 2012
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    Do it! Let us know how it goes (from jail).
     
    #18 Big MAK, Jan 28, 2012
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    #19 VanityHalfBlack, Jan 28, 2012
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    simplify, say 'hello'.
     
    #20 PinoyRocket, Jan 28, 2012
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