Ok. dated girl just three times. No sex. Need a quick note I can send her to tell her it didn't work out. I hate this stuff. Usually I'm the one waiting to get dunked. You know. Hanging in for the sex until she figures out that it isn't going anywhere. Then I get dumped, but this time I just want to cut it off early. She's expecting another date. I don't think being friends is good. I tried not calling (the crappy way), but it's clear now it's not mutual. She shot me an email and tried to call. What do I tell her? I don't think I need to tell her in person. It was only three dates right? What about, Hey Ashley, Although I had a good time with you and you are an attractive woman, it just didn't seem like we had any chemistry. I think you would agree. I did have fun and you are an interesting person, but I just don't think it would work out for us...... Is that good enuff.
yeah, call her beautiful thats always a plus. when i tell a dude something i always say "i feel" not "i think" because they cant argue with how you feel
Oh man. Are you sure I'm in the phone call place? That just gets awkward and I'm not even sure a woman wants to get a call like that. She wants to go tubing on the next date. I don't think I could do it on a date like that. Hey baby, I'm sending you down the river. So it would be a phone call or email. That's about all I can offer. Anybody else think an email is fine? I need some support for the easy road. I mean it's only been a handful of dates. Nothing serious (to me anyway).
Phi -- An email is fine. Try this: Dear Ashley, I'm sorry, but it just isn't going to work out. You're a beautiful woman. You have a great a$$ and a nice set of cans, but there's no real connection between us; or, at least I don't feel one. Even though we never got our freak on yet, I think we should stop things right here before they progress too far. Now, don't get me wrong, you're one hot bizzitch and I'd like to ride your sweet thing all night long, but what would happen in the morning? That's the question you, no, we, have to ask ourselves. So throw the candles to the wind and let your flame burn brightly somewhere else, like I know it will. Sorry Baby. Sincerely, PhiSlammaJamma PS: I still think you're a fine girl with a lot of great qualities, and I happen to have a friend that I think you'd like. Perhaps you two should get together? He's single and his name is RocketsPimp. I think you'd make a great couple!
let it taper off . . . just let the phone calls become fewer and farer between . . become Extremely busy . . . . that is the way women usually handle it Rocket River just a little bitter!
How about, Dear Ashley, I don't see any future in a relationship between us, so any future meetings will be booty calls only. Do not attempt to contact me except to arrange for a sexual encounter. thanks, Jack Mehoff
Phi, you should know better than to ask for serious, mature advice here. Your note is fine, if you want to go with email (Pimp's is awful, btw), but it is pretty sissy to hide behind email. Sorry, I know you were looking for some support of the easy way. If you don't mind being a sissy though, send the email.
I think you've been hanging out in the coffee fields too much Juan Valdez because I didn't write an email.
I've had women dump me just like Rocket River said. Nice and slow. But that sucked for me. Too many broken promises and fake stuff. I'm going to treat this like a bandaid and just rip it off. The email is the best way to do that. If I'm on the phone I"ll be too nice. I'll try for a friendship or something and then it will get messy again. no need for that. I'm going the gutless way. I would love to send the dumpsville email Good stuff. Ok. If I get stalked tonight it's my own fault.
