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Need advice--Dating

Discussion in 'BBS Hangout' started by Smallz88, May 15, 2003.

  1. Smallz88

    Smallz88 Member

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    Ok here it is.. There is this girl we've been talking off and on for 5 months, at first it was really serious then now were just "friends" tho i think we both like eachother.. Well she was talking to this girl that knows me and she asked her .. Are you seeing anyone and shes like ya, but i dont like guys, lol i just use them.. haha nah we'll see what happens// Exact words
    So i got pissed and havent spoken to her, this past monday she was at my school chilling, and i skipped 4th period and she came with me driving w/e, i got her jealous with some ****.. I get home and she calls me which is suprising cuz she has never called without me telling her to, Then she calls the next day again, then wednesday afternoon comes and im supposed to call her, i didnt she called me and shes like can you do me a favour im like ya, shes like can u gimme a ride to my friends house (it was on my way) so she gets in and shes kinda flirting, gives me kiss, plays with my ears/face same ****.. So were talking and im dropping her off at a guys house, she told me it his birthday and shes grounded this weekend (is true) and cant see him on his bday.. so w/e.. Then i call her when im about to pick her up and it was all quiet, so of course im paranoid, then i pick her up and she and the guy are waiting outside, she gets up gives him kiss on cheek and like a long hug, looks like whispering.. On the car ride back we hardly said anything, i was supposed to get her from school today but she never mentioned it on the way home, so i drop her off she kisses me and is like thx paul i love you.. w/e

    So i ask to you ppl. Should i be worried? Should i talk to her find out whats going on between us?What should i say?
    thanks
     
  2. codell

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    She sounds like a real prize. ;)
     
  3. Smallz88

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    ya she is, nuthing but problems.. I've never ever been depressed in my life, now i know how people feel when they say they r depressed
     
  4. RocketBurrito

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    Ditch & run dude. She's prolly banging that guy & using you for rides, etc. Plenty of girls out there, you don't need one that's hanging on & whispering to some other guy...
     
  5. fadeaway

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    Just be like, w/e.
     
  6. Smallz88

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    I know that she has alot of guy friends and all, but this just seemed to weird to me.. i dun even no anymore.. I wanna let go but it's so hard
     
  7. tolne57

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    I sounds like she summed everything up pretty nicely. Run away!
     
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  9. Smallz88

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    I did after that, but it seems like she comes back, and that kinda has to be a sign that everytime i forget about her, shes bak in my life, i am not sure if she was joking about that either
     
  10. Falcons Talon

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    I don't know...it kinda-sorta-butnotreally reminds me of the Forrest Gump romance...
     
  11. Rocket River

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    Look .. u have your answer
    she can stay in your life
    but not in your heart

    Remove your emotional attachment
    or
    remove yourself

    If you cool with being one of many . . . enjoy
    if u want to be her one and only
    LEAVE NOW AND DO NOT BE A FOOL!!!

    Rocket River
    been there . .. done that . ..
     
  12. Lynus302

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    Okay, I must be getting old. WTF is "w/e?" Is that "whatever?"
     
  13. Baqui99

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    You need to whip it out and show it to her next time you're in the car with her. Chicks love it when guys do that.

    ...then give it to her in the pooper, of course.
     
  14. MoBalls

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    Tell her to do it like Lebrons mom and give you a hummer....
     
  15. Smallz88

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    River, i try to leave because I do not want to stay as a friendship.. but everytime seems like something happens
     
  16. moestavern19

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    moballs - LMAO!

    Smallzy - What you need to do is tell her what you want, and see what she does with it. then is she's like w/e, than you just be like w/e and everything is w/e between you guys.
     
  17. fadeaway

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    I honestly don't know. I was just being pert. :eek:
     
  18. tozai

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    Allsome...

    Drop the ho unless she's giving you something. She's using you and it doesn't sound like you're getting anything in return.
     
  19. Surfguy

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    Don't forget your pooper scooper ;).

    Smallz88...no offense but your post wasn't exactly a model of reading comprehension there. I can only assume you had some jive mixed in there. w/e....I do what I want(Cartman).
     
  20. BmwM3

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    LOL!!I remember that episode.Classic!
     

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