I really didn't want to post this in RM Tex's thread, because that is what he's dealing with. Quite frankly, I was posting there to see if he wanted to grab drinks and swap stories. That said, my sitch is an interesting conundrum. I've been seeing this girl for almost 6 months. The entire relationship has been copacetic. As a guy, I refuse to put "boundaries" or "status" on the relationship. I feel that is the woman's place. However, we've been seeing each other casually roughly 3-5 times per week. On the weekends, she went out with "friends" so it worked perfectly for me. There were obvious times that she wouldn't answer her phone on the weekends, and I accepted that. After all, there was never a "committment" thing with either of us. Then I went to Chicago. Something seemed awry during that trip. And when I got back, albeit by her own offering, I noticed a mans duck kit there. And that's when I started paying attention. Needless to say, I went over there last night, and asked her about the "other" guy. Turns out, she's been dating him a little bit longer than me. I told her that since we'd never been in a quote-unquote "relationship", that I wasn't angry, but she needed to make a choice. She said she couldn't. I said, then I'll bow out, and let the other guy have her. She didn't want that, either. Looks like the girl wants to have her cake and eat it, too. There is nothing to me bailing on this girl, other than I really felt a connection, as did she, and she's really hot. Either way. I'm bowing out of this next week. Should she come back? Who knows.
Have you been reading the dictionary again? Women your age are jaded. I think that sex and the city crap is to blame.
I think that ending this now is probably for the best. If she says she cannot choose, then she is really using both of you for some psychological need she has. The longer it goes on, the more it will hurt when it inevitably ends. You deserve to find a lady who will value you more.
Goodbye sex, duh!!!! After carefully analyzing and applying my high emotional IQ and female friendship experience I've concluded the following: a) He has a big penis but you make more money. She's torn. or b) You have a big penis but he provides better companionship. Possible but not likely. Finally, c) He makes more money and you have a big penis. Improbable since you seem to make a high end wage. The answer is a A.
Thank God I am married. Today is our 21st anniversary. Threads like this make me even more appreciative.
Generally speaking . . . I would say she was demoted basically emotionally withdraw . . . .and keep doing what you doing until you find the next one It seems that is what she wants . . to keep on doing what you doing It will keep you straight until you find something else a WIN WIN Rocket River
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That sucks, man. Just be prepared to be done permanently if you end it...though it sounds like you realize that Does he know about you?
