I'm not gay, I don't think I send off any signals. Don't hit on me. I'm at the pool yesterday and I talk to this dude who i've seen there before. as you can guess I like to talk alot so we start talking about a lot of things from politics to religion. I mention several times that I'm married and have a kid. finally I tell the guy I'm going to go watch the football game and he asks me if I want to have dinner one night. I said I'm usually busy but if I see him again I'll think about it. then he asks me what apartment I live in. no some of you are going to say i'm overreacting or that he probably wasn't hitting on me but I've been hit on by gay guys several times in my life. usually it doesn't bother me when someone doesn't know me or haven't talked to me but when someone clearly knows that I'm not gay it bugs the hell out of me. that's all
Wait a minute. You strike up a conversation with a gay dude. He asks if you want to have dinner. You say you'll think about it. You are upset? Why didn't you just say you weren't interested.
wow, and I always assumed you were gay, I'm shocked. joke JOKE JOKE But I agree, it's natural for me to strike conversation up with people and I get along with others naturally I guess.. even with guys I can tell are gay I will still hold a conversation, and it's not fun when they take advantage of you and try to hit on you after you've let them know that gay isn't your thing.
Was he being taken advantage of? The guy didn't rape him. If you are talking to a girl, you have an interest, are you going to flirt with her? No harm no foul. The guy didn't feel him up, rape him, break into his house, slip him a pill, etc. He asked him out on a date. And instead of being rejected (lol this is the best part), he was given a reason to think there is some potential. LOL Seriously though, all you have to do is say "no" or "I'm not interested" or "I just joined the Peace Corps." There isn't anything to be offended about.
I didn't strike up the conversation. I know I wrote I like to talk but he started talking to me both times I've seen him. I don't want to be a jerk and just come out and say I'm not gay.
You wouldn't be a jerk to say you aren't gay. I think you make yourself look like a closet gay by not just flat out rejecting him. I remember four years or so ago before I married my wife, one of her co-workers had a huge thing for her. He kept flirting with her and then he left his number or something for her. She didn't have the nerve to say she wasn't interested. Not only did he keep trying, but he got pissed off when she finally said she wasn't interested.
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