Call 'em exotic entertainers, whatever. I want to know what you seriously think of these girls and why. What makes you judge them the way you do(IF you do). Would you date one seriously?? Would you hit it just for a piece of a$$? Would you love her like a princess? Why? Also, where are you from(city)? I'm curious for many reasons which I won't disclose just yet. I just want opinions....honest opinions.
Didn't somebody start a thread about this a while back? Something about strippers, I remember. I think they asked how many people seriously went to strip clubs with the intent to get a stripper in bed, and the thread kind of boiled down into general opinions on strippers. I would look for the thread, but I am too lazy.
If you're thinking of dating a stripper, don't. They're not the most... trustworthy people in the world. Oh, and you'll get real tired real fast of watching other guys fondle them on a nightly basis. So, just hit it and leave. Now, an ex-stripper might be a different story...
Here's a story for you. I have a friend who is dating a stripper. Well, ex-stripper. He met her while she was working. They kinda hit it off, and eventually he asked her to quit working. Which I think is wrong, but I digress. Anyway, so here is this semi-hot and young ex-stripper not working. He gives her his credit cards to go shopping, which she has maxed out repeatedly. He's even had to get an additional one for her. Meanwhile, he's working two jobs to not only pay his bills, the credit card debts, but also her bills/debts. Since he works two jobs, he hardly sees her. When he does see her, he's getting ready for bed, or is too tired to go out. If that's not bad enough, here's the kicker, they only screw about twice a month. Sometimes, not at all. It's to the point where he has to visit certain establishments around town. I keep telling him that she's screwing someone. I mean, a young, semi-hot ex-stripper running around town with no bills and a couple high limit credit cards? She's getting boned. Anyway, that's my story that'll always be my reminder to NEVER DATE STRIPPERS. They are not trustworthy. Not to mention most of them are fat c*nts not worth my dollar.
For your friend, I think Offspring said it best: Why Don't You Get A Job My friend's got a girlfriend Man he hates that 4itch He tells me every day He says "man I really gotta lose my chick In the worst kind of way" She sits on her as-s He works his hands to the bone To give her money every payday But she wants more dinero just to stay at home Well my friend You gotta say I won't pay, I won't pay ya, no way Why don't you get a job Say no way, say no way, no way Why don't you get a job I guess all his money, well it isn't enough To keep her bill collectors at bay I guess all his money, well it isn't enough Cause that girl's got expensive taste I won't pay, I won't pay ya, no way Why don't you get a job Say no way, say no way, no way Why don't you get a job Well I guess it ain't easy doing nothing at all But hey man free rides just don't come along every day
When I was younger, I dated a stripper, an ex-stripper, and a girl who would stip after we broke up. The stripper was more of a visitor. She wasn't real bright, but I never had to spend a dime on her. She just came over and well.....I can't really tell you any of the stories. But I have some fond memories. I'd go to bed well before she'd get off work, so I'd leave the door unlocked. Most nights she'd show up. One night I woke up and I couldn't breath. Anyway... The girl who would be a stripper was probably the most naturally intelligent girl I ever went out with. She was also FAR, FAR, FAR and away the most f'd up in the head. That was a very interesting experience. That I know of, she never cheated on me, but she banged a few of my friends immediately after I broke up with her. The ex-stripper....she was a relatively sweet chick that I dated later in life. Not the greatest girl in the sack, but not a bad girl. It just didn't work out though. All in all, I'd say they all had quite a bit of baggage, but I would say that my experiences were not as bad as they should have been by dating these chicks. They didn't steal from me, I didn't spend much on them, and they were all self-supportive. That being said, I'd still probably suggest that guys stay away from them. The girl I eventually married....completely different than these chicks. Smart, funny, EXTREMELY responsible, and very career oriented. C'est La Vie.
I dated a stripper once. She was my next door neighbor at thia apt. complex I lived in a few years back. I would never date one again. Why? She "dated" lots of guys. Now, keep in mind that I was only interested in the booty. But the more it went on, the more disinterested and disgusted I got with her habits. Granted, I was one of those habits, but I gues eventually I got tired of it, and thoght better of myself for leting that go. MAN WAS I STUPID!!!
If I was dating a stripper I'd install some polls in my house right away. Since that will never happen, I live in poleless environment.
Pimp- Dating a stripper is a classic Catch 22. Positives: *This girl is probably pretty hot. *The "get some" factor is in full effect. *She probably is pretty flexible which is always good. *She might need some extra cash to pay for college, which is always a good reason to strip. Negatives: *Illegal drug factor. *She strips for a living. *She see's tons of guys each day to whom she gives lap dances and other "VIP priveleges" to. *Not really a girl you want to take home to mom. *Intelligence factor?? Maybe she is smart, but the ones I have met arent really Harvard grads. Lots of pros and cons. Might be fun for a while, but I wouldnt consider it long term unless you see some serious potential in her.
Never date a stripper . . PERIOD Ex or not [they never truly leave the life when times get hard. . they want that easy money] High drug factor and trust me. . THEY DON'T TRUST MEN so you will spend a greta deal of time trying to convince you not bubba with a dollar and a dream My friend dated an Ex . . . and THAT B*TCH WAS CRAZY! some of the **** that spilled out her mouth . . .. he was a good guy . . she could not trust it Another girl i know . . is married et al . . but still looks for the life the money . . .etc And honest man . . .a stripper is only a part time prostitute for the most part. . . . Dancing on stage ain't the pay day [what they make. . . 20 dollars IF THEY GOOD IN A GOOD CLUB] They make they money on Lap dances and EXTRA Curicular axctivites. . . . Rocket River {I know a few pimps . .. who 'work' the clubs ;-) }
My roommate dated a stripper once. Actually, only for like a week or two. She gave him this ugly pink couch and loveseat. He still has them -- we used the loveseat in our dorm room. Ironically, he bumped into her at a Bennigan's a few years later. They hung out a few times, but that was it. He said the whole drug thing was too much. She was on X, I think.
One of the actresses in my first movie was also a stripper. She was nice to us and all, but I certainly wouldn't have wanted to date her (for one thing, she was married... but even if she hadn't been married, I wouldn't have wanted to date her). I don't think I could handle that whole stripping culture on that level. I wouldn't like the idea of my girlfriend out bumping and grinding and kissing up to strange men for money. And dealing with all my friends saying "Hey, let's go see your girlfriend take off her clothes" all the time would get old really quick. But that's just me. I wouldn't even think it was cool for a short while.
I dated a stripper once. That was the first, last, and only time I'll date one though. The girl had some serious issues. She was bi-polar, manic, etc. We had fun at first, but it was over a long time before I finally broke up with her. She quit dancing "for me," which she constantly reminded me of, and is also something I never asked her to do. (Hey, I loved it. I was in college, she was great-looking and I got the royal treatment at the club, but I digress.) Now I'm a pretty open-minded guy, so I won't sit here and claim that all strippers are screwy, but I'd be very careful if I were you. I'll never date another one.
I think there's probably some decent girls out there who strip for the money. Not all of them can be bad people, but I'd be careful. There's other hot, 'talented', flexible girls out there who aren't stripping. Ironically, Lynus' vow to never date one again worked out real well for me!
