when starting a relationship how early is too early or when is it proper to use the "l" word? i've been talking with someone for the past couple of months and this person is the coolest and most genuine person i think that i've met... ever. i've heard that you use it "when you feel that it's right", but there has to be some sort of time table or something... right? is two months too early? this person told me that they were willing to let me watch the rockets games unbothered if i tried to teach them the game and if it turned out that they were uninterested. can't beat that. seriously, this person said that and is the most sincere person... ever. any stories to tell about the "l" word? use it at the wrong time? right time? how do you know? please no "love at first sight" stuff. i think i'm in love. hell phuque yeah!
It's been almost exactly 3 months for me and I haven't said it yet. I don't know. I'm afraid of throwing it out there and not getting it back in return.
If yall have been dating for a while, (more than a couple weeks...to months), during whoohoo might be a good time....as long as you believe she has similar feelings. Otherwise the whoohoo will turn into a whooawwww.
What if you say it in a foreign language first, just to test it out? More serious than "love ya," less serious than "I love you," and easy to retract if you don't get a good response. No charge.
Awesome! Nothing like the lack of a response to the "I love you." The only real way around that is just to say, "Look, it doesn't matter how you feel, but I think it is important that I tell you how I feel," cross your fingers and hope for the best.
It's different for each couple..but just be aware that if you say it, that's a pretty big matza ball hanging out there. Personally, I'd never ever say it until the other person says it a coupleof times first.
Nah, it's not like that. If someone if going to profess such a strong emotion to me, I'm making sure that they've thought it through, and mean it.
