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Just got my heart ripped to shreds by girl... need help.

Discussion in 'BBS Hangout' started by Troy McClure, Oct 12, 2004.

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  1. Troy McClure

    Troy McClure Member

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    Hello everyone, Remember me ? The guy with the girl that was a friend, but no a girlfriend ? Well yeah, after I did tell her I had feelings for her , everything was going fine for about a month. Now , because of something I dont want to get into right now, things are kind of done and Im left on the floor like a deer that just got the **** knocked out of it by an 18 wheeler.

    Hurting here.....

    Dont know what to do......
     
  2. twhy77

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    Post Pictures of her... We will decide if she is worthy of your love.
     
  3. Troy McClure

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    No thanks...
     
  4. twhy77

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    Ise jus kiddin'

    You'll probably need to give more info if you wnat help though. ;)
     
  5. moestavern19

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    :(

    You need Drugs, and lots of them.
     
  6. PhiSlammaJamma

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    Be sad for a day. Then Remember all the bad things about her, jump straight into the strip club phase, and then celebrate your new freedom, a clean credit card, and future sex with no strings attached. I learned in scuba class there are plenty more fish in the sea. And it's true.
     
  7. pasox2

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    Mmmmm...fish. Fish tacos.

    Got to get me some.
     
  8. Stack24

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    Go out and party one night get a buzz and check out every girl and you will realize there are many many more out there...simple as that.
     
  9. AroundTheWorld

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    Ask Rocketman Tex to give you advice on how to get back at her.
     
  10. MoBalls

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    How is the 18-wheeler?
     
  11. giddyup

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    Was it something for which you were responsible? I understand if you don't want to get into it...
     
  12. Dr of Dunk

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    First rule of a broken heart :

    Don't go to guys for comforting. Guy friends are pretty much useless unless you're moving or watching sports. General, yes, but generally true. Find another girl to talk to. :)
     
  13. Oski2005

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    You are going to think that your life is over, that you'll never find love again. It's gonna eat at you like crazy. All I can tell you is that it is true, you will never find another girl. Accept it.


    Humor is your friend btw. Just hang out with your buddies and take your mind off of it.
     
  14. pradaxpimp

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    pick ur ass up and get to a singles bar immediately
     
  15. lost_elephant

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    "Man, all you gotta do is find a girl that looks just like her, nail her, and then dump her, man. Get her off your mind."
     
  16. Man

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    lol

    Good luck Troy
     
  17. TBar

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    Nothing will get your mind off a woman who dumped you better than to hook up with another girl. Have fun.

    When I was single I became friends with a woman younger than me that worked at the phone company. She and I could not hook up because we were neighbors, but she had lots of single friends. I would do things for her- take her and her kids to eat, or buy her some beer or whisky-just simple things really, and she would introduce me to girls.

    She liked to go see live music and would invite a friend. It was very casual, so I could decide if I was interested.

    She and I became good friends and I never tried to lay a hand on her. It was my first friend female that I was not trying to hit on or jump her bones.

    Anyway - a female friend can help hook you up.

    Get out there and have fun...
     
  18. Stack24

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    Yes sir that's the best thing. when a girl hooks you up your chances sky rocket just because they already are friends with the girl and they know the girl would not try to hook them up with someone stupid or crappy. So get your friends that are girls to help you out. A lot better than trying to meet random girls.
     
  19. Phillyrocket

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    Realize that everyone you know, ever have known or ever will know will leave you at some point in your life. Either you will part from them, they will part from you, or one of you will pass away. This is probably the only thing in life you can count on to be absolutely true. I know that sounds pessimistic, but once you realize this you'll quit worrying about losing someone and just enjoy the time you have together. Once they're gone, they're gone. So look back with a smile, remember the good times, learn from the bad ones and roll on.

    And don't throw yourself back out there it's just pointless. Take a second and reavaluate what you're doing in life. Take your new found freedom and most likely sudden lack of an expense and go do something you've always wanted to do.

    Once you're ready to date again heed the words of Garth Brooks:

    Rosie came 'round
    In the way that true love does
    Just when you're lookin' elsewhere
    For the thing that never was
     
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    Sorry man, I empathize. This happened to me a few weeks ago, as I mentioned on this board. There's plenty more fish in the sea, my friend.
     

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