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Jealousy issues: How do you handle them?

Discussion in 'BBS Hangout' started by ToyCen428, Feb 18, 2011.

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  1. ToyCen428

    ToyCen428 Member

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    A serious question.

    I recall when I was in my teens, even to this day, I'd have outrageous jealousy issues towards other guys and my girlfriend/wife. For instance, I wouldn't even want her talking with them even if it were just a friend or a co worker, it didn't matter.

    This is something I would think about day and night, the feeling never really went away til the issue was over.
     
  2. macalu

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    Do you get jealous when the aliens probe her?
     
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  3. thetatomatis

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    Its tough but dealing with jealous folks is easy. I typically just flash my cash at them and and tell them to take a picture and it will last longer.

    Then jump into my helicopter and take off and pee on them from above..
     
  4. RedRedemption

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    Well, you won't have to worry about Thadeus talking to her again. The Thadeus already did her.
     
  5. Nero

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    It has been my experience that the jealous people are the ones with the sin in their hearts which they believe is in the hearts of others.

    In other words, the jealous types are always the most likely cheaters.

    It's a projection onto others of what you see inside yourself; you assume it is in everyone's heart. Hence, you see someone speaking with a member of the opposite sex and become jealous, most likely it is you who is feeling/thinking/imagining/planning something illicit with someone else if you were in that position.

    Just my opinion, after having dealt with astonishingly jealous women over the years, every one of whom turned out to be a cheater.
     
  6. REEKO_HTOWN

    REEKO_HTOWN I'm Rich Biiiiaaatch!

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    Too late. the thadeus has her.
     
  7. GRENDEL

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    I'm jealous that our Alien Overlords have given you the keen insight into the truth of this world while we are left on the outside looking in.....
     
  8. v3.0

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    Tomorrow both of you should just drive around the town and let the cops chase you around...
     
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  9. GRENDEL

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    never know, the past is gone but something might be found to take it's place...
     
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    If you think youre with a w****, then jealousy is justified.

    If you think youre not with one, then jealousy is a wasted emotion.
     
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    Dude. He said it was a serious question. OF COURSE, he's jealous of the aliens probing her. :grin:

    But, seriously, folks...

    Jealousy? Of course everyone gets jealous from time to time, but don't ever show that, and don't ever let it bring you down.

    All I think now, when dudes or *even other chicks* are staring at my wife is "You like staring at that, huh? Good. That's all you get. I get other stuff" and go about my business.

    Basically, don't worry about everyone else. Always KNOW your woman is with you because she wants you. If you doubt that, then you shouldn't even be with her. :eek: Trust is key.
     
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    If you like it then you shoulda put a burqa on it .
     
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  14. Malcolm

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    Real talk dude that's an issue you need to figure out. Usually jealous people feel they are not worth enough to have the person they have. Ya gotta get that arrogance level up and start feeling like you're the stuff. You do that you have no reason to be jealous because you'll know that your better than anybody else out there.
     
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    ^this. best advice you'll get in this thread.
     
  16. Malcolm

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    That's not enough imo.

    You need to check off the various shallow definitions of "success" or "attraction" so others will comment on and reaffirm your superiority. It can be things like having a higher income, better health and fitness, expensive clothes, driving an exotic car, knowledge of dozens of foreign languages, subjects, dishes, musical instruments, and so on.

    This way, rather than happy voices in your head creating an image bubble, you have the proof that other people think you have special qualities. For some people, the mind responds to external recognition much, much more.

    The above comes from this psych course I studied in undergrad concerning the attraction between two mates, and the attempts - sometimes - where one of them engaged in the above behavior to make themselves feel better. It's superficial and vain, but it worked in either getting the ex to fall for them again, or making the ex jealous that the former mate is attractive (again) while they were single or in another relationship.
     
  19. sammy

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    Only insecure guys get jealous.
     
  20. Bandwagoner

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    Who in the hell would have guessed that ToyCen428 would be paranoid. WTF my world is crashing.
     

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