that girls or women like to have sex, or maybe enjoy it more when they can have a orgasm or multiple orgasms. im not going to sit here and state how many people i have been with, i guess ill say i have had enough though to have a well researched opinion. ill also say that those type of ladies also seem to be into "it" more.
no just had a thought in my head on why some girls ( or people im sure this is true from a females position to) are better in bed then others. being nothing to do really how attractive you are to the person. although im sure if i were to have a chance with penelope cruz it wouldnt matter what she did in bed, i would think she was great...
so you're basically saying you've left your ladies in the past hanging and left them unsatisfied and now you're all about getting the girl off
So you think women are more "into" sex if they have an orgasm, or multiple orgasms? Really? Wow! I'd never have guessed.
i guess its obvious. but i guess there are other variables that i havent thought about before. for instance how much would you prefer to be with a girl/woman that could have 5-10 orgasms every time you were with her, or would that even really matter. probably doesnt matter because it looks like people are just saying im dumb and stating the obvious.
peleincubus, I don't think you are dumb, not at all, but I do think you may have recently discovered something many of us have known for a long time. Just an FYI... any woman who has "5-10 orgasms every time you were with her" is NOT going to have "5-10 orgasms every time you were with her," every single time. Eventually, the bloom will come off the rose, even if love blossoms. Then you will be looking at "5-10 orgasms" from time to time, sometimes more, but often less. Try having some kids. With them running around the house, you might lose an orgasm or two. Somehow, I think you'll handle it. Somehow, I think she'll handle it.
I dont know what direction to go with at this point of my life when it comes to women. I've had such a difficult time with being in relationships all my life. The girls i've met that get off a lot and really enjoy sex and are always down to get pounded and give amazing bj's are fun but there's hardly ever any development in emotional chemistry with these women and it's really all just physical. Not only that, but the majority have had a lot of partners which is kind of a turn off to me. I feel deep down i might be scared to get committed to this kind of girl b/c of the sex eventually dieing down and end up being cheated on or just being left. Then when it's over, they find a new guy within a week. I see older, divorced women in their 40's picking up young dudes in their 20's and i can't help but picture every freaky girl turning out like this later in their life. Now the chicks that you would call "boring" in bed are the opposite. To me the sex isn't boring but it's not as fun i guess(mostly dealing with receiving oral). It's been more emotional with some wild nights but mostly missionary(which i do actually get off to more than any other position) and lots of kissing and not just mounting and pounding and screaming. The emotional chemistry is always great though. We enjoy our time together, lots of laughing and fun but i get way more insecure when it comes to these girls b/c im more used to the freaky girls and i sometimes feel im not pleasing this type of girl as much sexually b/c they seem to not initiate it much and not really care if they were physical with me that night or not or during sex i can't even tell if they get off or not. It mostly ends b/c i get so ****ed up in the head and start questioning myself if im not that great in bed or if my cak isn't big enough or something. I've really fallen more for the plain jane kind of girl when it comes to sexual stuff and ones that have only had a few partners in their life and you have to actually work in order to even make out with. But, i tend to find these girls are always still thinking about their ex. They can't move on and they let themselves get cheated on crap and show a lot of weakness. And it really pizzes me off when i meet such an incredible girl but i see crap like jealousy and bitterness when it comes to their ex boyfriend or husband even after THEY were left for another woman and cheated on as well. I guess you could just say, i'll eventually find a girl with the right mix and i know looks can be deceiving but COME ON, we all can spot a slut or a good girl from a mile away and then every now and then you get the closet freak.... one thing is for sure! I can't do one night stands anymore or just **** buddies...i wanna be a good man and not easily tempted to cheat on that perfect girl.
Man HKC me and you are quite a bit a like when it comes to women. I guess you could say I'm just as much of a mess as you are.
