How much would it take for you to allow your significant other to have sex with a strange man or in the case of the few ladies here, a strange woman. This would be for a one-night session of no-holds barred intercourse with the person you care about the most.
I don't think any man with a brain would consider that. This is your wife, not some w**** you met at the club. Now, if it was for a girlfriend that I didn't really see a future for us, then hell yeah. I'd take the money and then dump her.
I am gonna get flamed. Like really severely. I have never been jealous in my life. I have learned to fake it, because women will break up with you for not being jealous enough, because its somehow proof that "you don't care about them". I have friends that have significant others that don't really share their thoughts and feelings with my friends, but only their best girlfriends...but my friends only worry about them sleeping with someone else. I am kind of the opposite. I can do monogamy (and do..because that is generally what the women I am interested in want to do). So honestly if my significant other WANTED to sleep with my best friend, i'd take a dollar menu cheeseburger. I don't own her. In fact my best friend in HS DID sleep with my first gf. I forgave em both, at the time I didn't want to lose my gf and my best friend at the same time. After that, I sort of realized that at least for me, in the grand scheme of things it didn't matter that much. I love my gf and she and I are monogamous and loyal to each other in every way possible. But if she were to stray, I would be ok with it as long as she told me about it and extended me the same courtesy. (And for those of you that are gonna chime in with me not really loving her or me being sick...go ahead... I can only live MY life, I am not trying to live yours.)
^ What's the point of ya'll staying together if you're going to be sticking your peepee in other va-gee-gees and she's going to let other dudes be doin' her? What kind of "courtesy" is that? That's SWINGING.
If she did sleep with someone else I would want her to let me do the same. But even if she didn't it wouldn't be a deal breaker..since she is a little jealous and I really am not. At least as far as that is concerned. See I knew I would get flamed.
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I don't have any issue with what you said, regardless whether or not I condone or applaud your stance. Sex is just sex. However, what if she WANTED to sleep with your best friend because she LOVED him instead of merely offering the booty for your cheeseburger? IMO, that changes the game. An important and wise statement.
Caucasian? No but seriously, hes not your best friend if he slept with your first gf. What kind of friend would do that? You seem like a guy that would forgive anything and everything your girl has done because you are afraid of losing her. Sounds like that chick could step all over you and you'd still want to be with her. Letting your friend have sex with her for a cheeseburger? LMAO. I'll buy you guys dinner, can I stick it in her butt?
Its not about the sex to me. I wouldn't want my gf talking dirty to another man for a million dollars, and i'm sure she wouldn't be able to bring herself to do it either. I would hope that the person i love has enough respect for me and for her own body that she wouldn't w**** herself out for any sum of money. If her morals are that low, who knows what else she would do. That's not someone i would want to be with. Sex is meaningless unless you place it into its proper context.
Actually, there are a lot of things she could do that I couldn't forgive. I would be very likely to break up with her if she stole my email password and looked at my email without permission. I would certainly break up with her if she was as distant as a lot of my friends significant others are. But they don't mind the emotional distance cause they are too busy obsessing over if their gf is sleeping with someone else. I am not pretending I am in the right or even "normal". In fact I usually pretend to be a little jealous in a relationship because its what women seem to want (and it isn't just this girl its every gf I have had). As far as you sticking it in her posterior. She would be free to make that decision, but I am guessing that dinner wouldn't be a big factor in her decision.
