But seriously, she gives me the *****s like you wouldn't believe. off One night I come home she's all happy and i'm the best guy in the world. The next night I come home and she is p*ssed off for whatever reason...I know women can be like this but she is out of control. Whose for staying for another 6 years of this crap? Whose for bailing?
Womens got hormones we can't even imagine. Women can get as b****y as men get horny. Either can drive them to cold blooded murder. Back in her 20's my wife could PMS like a banshee. I thought they had drugs for that now. You know it's all a stress reaction; the responsibility to reproduce, the passive role they have to play, the Madonna/w**** duality they have to maintain to keep a provider against the attraction we express for every other woman. She's just scared. You can understand and placate if it's a relationship you want to nurture or you can just blow everything up. Welcome to life.
Ello mate..........she's probably screwing a Gecko. Seriously, It takes 2 to argue. What time are you coming home? What are the "whatever reasons"? Why are you asking about leaving to a bunch of geeks with one hand in their pants and the other on a keyboard? :grin: Seriously, if I had a dime for everytime me lady did this to me, I'd be a rich man. 6 years is a long time, calm down and think about it. Latina? I've been married for 22 years and its been bumpy at some points but we stuck together and pulled through. Thats what its all about. Good luck mate. Mo 'muthaf'in' Balls
Married without kids is not as 'done' as married with kids. The complications of ending it are just legalities. Once you have kids though, you are as committed as the pig is to breakfast; 100%, forever.
You reap what you sew... You made your bed, now you lie in it... blah blah blah Suck it up (that's what she said) and be a MAN. Don't be a little boy. I bet that's why she's pissed, 'cuz you're being juvenile. Own up to your mistakes and say "sure, I'll work on them" and accept you've done some wrong... but ask her to help you out in pointing them out on time instead of 2 months later... usually they'll let you get away with things when they could have stopped them. ♫ Love and Marriage... Love and Marriage... go together like a horse and carriage... ♪
The robot wife where you can control its emotional state is years away. Well, Japan has one but it's pretty dumb as far as robots go. So, we're not at the point where you can take your wife in and have her replaced with a robot wife. For now, maybe some earplugs can help you when she is PMS-ing on you?
Goin thru it as we speak, I helped her out last night by making her sausage links and eggs for this mornings breakfast and I had the duty's of making our son's bottles. Of course as soon as I'm done cookin I throw those mugs in the fridge, this morning she wakes up bishyer than a horny hippo and she starts rollin her eyes at me cause I put em in the fridge instead of leaving them out. Um, can't you microwave those things up??? Anyway I was doin all that and didn't have time to finish up the dishes and now we're not talking to each other. Women..... you know the saying......
aussie, does this have anything to do with the loss to Germany? I kid! the futants, I believe their age doesn't matter. They're MARRIED. Whether he's 20, 30, or 50, and they've been together for 1 or 10 years, his frustration comes from her being upset "for whatever reason" and the way he puts it, it's not worth even talking about it. If he hasn't grown up, he must if he wants to stay with her. If she hasn't grown up, she must if she wants to stay with him. They're probably just not communicating effectively and hence the frustrated opening post. Dude, you need professional help. Don't scream at each other. UHhhhh, sure, take the lazy way out and don't let the partner you've chosen for life help you fix your own mistakes. Sure.
Sounds like it is time to get a hobby . . . something that keeps you out of the warpath! Rocket River
you should find the root of what is causing her to b**** at you. it's not fair to you when you're getting yelled at for no good reason (i'm assuming there's no good reason). otherwise, in another 6 years you're gonna regret not leaving her today. sure, you can just say it's a woman thing. but it's never that simple. you've already recognized there's something wrong with the situation. try to fix it before it gets worse.
typical married arguments...that and money...it's sad and its no wonder people give up and get divorced...why be unhappy? For the record, no matter what you do, you'll always be the bad guy...just nod your head and say "You're right"...the moodiness/insecure stuff will never end..I deal it w/ my g/f at least once/twice a week...
We're 27 and been married since we were 21. Yeah married early is one problem. We are very different personalities... I consider myself pretty worldly.. love a good conversation/debate about anything really. She is mostly happy with her job and looking forward to kids. Totally doesn't get my dry sense of humour. Frustrating. Lately I have gotten to know someone who suits my perfect ideal of a woman...31, no interest in babies, gorgeous, and...spoken for. Nonetheless, getting to know her has made me aware of the beautiful possibilities.
