What the hell. She just msged me online and is acting all friendly and stuff. I suppose she feels pity for me? Should I not get my hopes again or should I try to use this situation to turn things around? Or just go with the flow
I would play it cool and go with the flow. IMO, you shouldn't try to turn things around at this juncture.
She either feels pity for you (which you don't want) or she is using that as power to toy with you knowing she has the upper hand. Try to date her friends.
Her loss. Ask her best friend out. Let her know you are in The Bigs. Your goal here is to have her say "ya know if you ask me out again I might say yes." Again if she does not that will be her loss. And you will probably get a date out of her best friend. It is all good.
Ok, here goes. I had a girl turn me doen a little over a year ago. I didn't tell her off or anything, but I did tell my friends to no longer associate with her. About a month and a half later, she called me up and told me she loved my friendship, but didn't feel that way about me. Which was an incredible shock, because I can typically woo a girl correctly. Regardless, next time I saw her she put my favorite drinking song on, which I know she, as well as everyone else, hates, so I forgave her, and we've become quite good friends, although I've still been attracted to her. Recently, she has been asking me out a lot and wanting to spend more time with me. However, one night we'll be BSing about different sex things we like and what we're looking for in a mate. The next she's talking about how much she likes someone else. I'm fully aware of the tightrope I'm walking, which is why I'm still dating several other people. My best advice to you is either tread lightly, knowing you could get burned, or leave her alone, entirely. It all depends on your confidence level if you find out it was for naught. And as confident as I am, this girl can still screw with my emotions. For further example of such, check out my "honesty" thread with my buddy. While I still think he did a really stupid thing, I've also realized I overreacted quite a bit.
Dude, you gotta play hard to get since she rejected you. Try to give her the notion that the rejection didn't phase you and that you're ready to lay the pipe with some other chick. Be a jerk to her! Chicks tends to want what they can't get.... then when she ask you out.. u can either give in and be with her .. or reject her back muahhah muahhaha *rubs hands together*
before this goes too far BE FRIENDLY . .. . . . NEVER FRIENDS!!!!!!! Friend = F-R-I-ENDZONE . . . not a good place to be Rocket River
This is true. It's VERY hard to get out of the friendzone.. almost an impossibility. Although I'm currently dating my bestfriend.. but that's one in a jizzillion.. and plus I'm kinda hot If I get rejected, I'd just blow her off and act all hard and not caring if she calls. No need to be driving towards a dead end. Unless, you see a chance of hitting it.
Reminds me of a Chris Rock bit... You are the emergency fire extinguisher. In case of emergency, break glass.
I rejected a girl yesterday. Clingy McArmenstein. I hate to be rude, but this girl had huge arms. As some of you may know, I like my girls to have a little meat on them and this girl was right up my alley, except for those guns. My God, they were huge. Here was an e-mail sent to me after I had to tell her to stop texting me 18 times a day (which was the real kicker, not the arms). Yeah, we're going to hell.
