I just get tired, i don't know if it's depression or something else any one have experience with this?
Seconded. It's really not that hard unless you're just drinking watery beer. Liquor will get you straightened out in a hurry.
This is a lie... i have sources familiar to the situation who say meth sucks now-a-days, similiar to extacy...
Well, i used to have fun when I'd drink. Now i just get tired and sad for the most part. I can't really explain it. i had a date earlier tonight, everything went well but i still felt the need to go out afterwards and i can just drink and drink without ever having a good time. It just pushes me farther into a saddess i don't really have an excuse for. I guess there's a deeper reason why i can't be happy, i can't figure it out though.
Quit drinking... you've built a tolerance and are subconciensencly bored.with it... its not fun for you like it used to be because its become routine and most likely uneventful... also alcohol is a depressant, and you sound as if your going thru a sad and depressed time... my best advice is to look into a new hobby or activity to stimulate your senses to reach enjoyment... try a gym, or go to more aports venues instead of drinking... you could watch an astros baseball game for the price of two beers at a local bar...
Second the other post about taking a break from drinking. I've been to AA meetings and that's a story I heard before. People associate getting drunk with being happy, but you don't need to lower your inhibitions in order to be good company. It's easier, it's a bonding experience, blah blah blah... if you're not getting much out of it, drinking becomes a crutch, not a social lubricant. It's okay to be sad sometimes. No need to overanalyze that ish. If you can't shrug the thoughts off, write it down and make something constructive out of it. Many times people go through the motions. They can overwork to ignore everything else and whatever their minds and bodies are telling them. Others can't explain what's going on because they never learned how to listen to themselves. And that ends up with destructive things like drinking, drug abuse, cutting themselves, and increasingly random and unprotected sex. Not saying that's you, but many people have gone through that. Some don't get out. Do something simple such as taking time writing anything on your mind with no expectations of reading it over or other people reading it. Just you, your thoughts, and a hand to push a pen or pencil. Start with that and make a habit out of it. Unless you want to end up sucking dick for coke. Your life. You sound like a guy who'd stick pickles in a passed out friend's butt. Just sayin...
Take a break. I always have that when I drink a week from getting really smashed. Just stop for like a month or two and you will be able to have fun again. Plus alcohol is bad for you (captain obvious)
You know me, when my mom passed I drank like a fish and it put my life on hold for about a good year, people mourn in their own way. If you are drinking to forget problems and issues that you have with yourself or external issues (job, finances) then the last thing you need is to "drink to forget yourself." Although I have been guilty of that myself, as I am sure many people have. If it is not "fun" anymore than don't do it. You know that we don't care what you do, as long as you are around. Case in point when I stopped smoking weed years and years ago, we are all still friends and still hang out all the time. As others have stated, a new hobby. ( I would always let you have one of my guitars as a loaner), get swole like paultsk (I am getting thick again). Or do that gay p*rn thing you keep talking about....:grin: If anything that is for enjoyment feels like work, and doesn't need to be done... It most likely doesn't need to be done.
Sounds like aids. But seriously, get tested. But really seriously, like you said, the actual sadness is probably linked to something else, and not the alcohol. Do you drink brown liquor or white (clear) liquor?
