I absolutely LOVE it when a gorgeous woman comes to my job needing help. I guess I'll continue to look and not touch. But man was this last one smokin'... That is all... [\Digression]
you should never pretend...or hold your wife to the illusion...that both of you are going to all of a sudden stop being physically attracted to other people. that says absolutely nothing about how much you love your wife. better to have that conversation now. plus, it's much better when you're comfortable enough in the relationship for your wife to say, "hey, i don't know if you saw her or not, but you should probably look over there because i know you're going to think she's hot." :grin: key to this is that your wife's confidence comes from the fact that she knows that you're attracted to her.
I am happily married woman but I love eye candy. I'd tell the hubby if a dude is HOT. He would do the same thing with me by telling me a chick is hot. Why get mad?
absolutely. it just comes from being comfortable enough in the relationship and confident enough to be honest. my wife isn't going anywhere because she sees some guy she thinks is hot....by the same token, i'm not going to do something to jeopardize my relatonship with my wife because i find someone attractive. plus, she'd know i'm lying if i was like, "no honey, you're the only hot girl i've ever seen." she's not an idiot. if the relationship is based solely in the fact that you think the other is hot...and either of you is seriously threatened by something that small... you've got issues to work through that run far deeper.
you say that with such reluctance... just be honest with yourself and make sure you mean this before you tie the knot.
