So most guys here are either dating, married, or have had some sort of relationship within their lifetimes. I am currently in one, and said something EXTREMELY wrong. One of those out of line, not-acceptable type things. I was wondering what you guys do to make things slightly better, and keep in mind she is pretty far away. Thanks!
Just apologize and get her a small gift. AND... make sure to never do it again. Once is fine, but twice... and you got a problem.
I'll usually let my girl have her space for an hour or two. Later on I'll call her and just talk to her and maybe sing her a song or just remind her how special she is and that usually does the trick in my relationship.
Dude I know this is private but you did come on here to ask or some help. If you really want specific help on this let us know a little bit more about what you said.
Don't apologize too quick because you will seem to easy, give her some time. And do all of the above. Song, gift, whatever you do don't say, "I'm Sorry" or "it won't ever happen again", because you can't guarantee it won't happen again, and also if you use I'm sorry too much you won't be able to use it later. Just make her left and tell her how much you love her. Then have phone sex... Ok this last part was just for fun.
So as mentioned before in another thread, we sort of had the "sex talk" and I used that against her because I sort of wanted to talk to her about it, and didn't know any other tactful way to bring it up, so I brought it up in an under handed, back handed way, that made her look bad, which is not any way how I think of her, and now I'm sort of stuck...
Dude if she doesnt know about the birds and bees yet, i'm fairly sure she's not ready for a serious relationship.
Ronny has been ****ing on a lot of things recently. And I mean that in the best way possible, of course.
Hell, I say something EXTREMELY wrong every other day, and it's been five years. If she leaves, bye-bye.
The thing is I was under a bunch of meds at the time! She doesn't buy it and also says that all my other excuses are bs... So in other words I'm trying to look for the ultimate reason that isn't BS, because I wasn't really thinking what I thought I said, I said it as a segway to something I wanted to talk to her about!
Apologize and call yourself a jerk, a-hole, r****d, don't blame it on anything just take it. That's what girls want...to pile on you for a while.
LOL. Me too. On Topic: Give ya girl a deep and SINCERE Apology. If that doesn't work Flowers and fake tears help Rocket River
If she doesn't trust you already - which I think I read from this - you have to ask yourself if its worth it. Especially if its a long distance relationship. Trust requires face time to work best.
Pshhh if she really cares Brahh just say sorry and tell her that you messed up. Chicks just want you to know that you aren't perfect and they want you to feel bad for a while. If she cares you'll be fine. If not, why bother anyways??
