I've been dating this girl since the 10th grade (going into senior year this fall) and she is pretty shy about sex. I always admire her company and I have tried bringing up the topic of intercourse. Both times she just smiles and tells me she does not like going down like that. How should I approach her next time in asking for sex? Am I risking what we currently have in asking for some sexy time? Is the risk in asking worth our relationship? tl:dr: Girl wont put out, should I keep asking or lay off? PS: I dont like talking to my parent about stuff like this. They probably would cut my dick off if they knew I like sex. Thank you
Lay off. Women are like streetcars. If you miss one, there will be another one coming down the tracks within 10 minutes.
You shouldn't have to "convince" anyone to enter into an intimate relationship. If you feel like you have to and/or you can't respect the boundaries she has set, then maybe it's time to move on to someone else. If being with her is more important than having sex, then stay, don't push her into anything, and let things happen when they happen.
You like sex? So were you cheating, or just getting lucky on the regular before 10th grade? If she wants to wait for marriage/engagement, that is up to her. If it is important to you, break up with her and sleep with someone else. You are 17/18, it isn't going to work out anyway (odds are ridiculously low). If desperate, get her drunk, let her want to F you.
Surprisingly I am still a virgin and I've only kissed her occasionally. I just like to go the "2012 Best Ass/Rack/Face Thread" and fap evey other day. Sadly that's the only action I've been getting. Thank you for all the serious replies. (repping.)
