im in love with this girl who ive been on and off with for 6 years. i just cant get over her. she "loves me" back but doesnt think the distance would work out with us. shes made it clear i cant change her mind. but i find myself thinking of her constantly and calling or texting her almost everynight. how do you get over her?
Jesus Christ didn't you read the other thread? Take her off your myspace top 8, the rest takes care of itself.
As a veteran of a long distance relationship. It takes an enormous amount of work to make things work despite the distance. In my case it eventually became too hard to make things work. The fact that she doesn't think it could work because of the distance indicates she is not willing to put in that kind of effort. Time is the best healer. Have to steel yourself that she isn't yours anymore. And isn't coming back. Once you do that, then time will eventually heal you. If you are totally convinced that she is the one for you...perhaps you can find away to move to where she is. (I would make certain she feels the same about you and isn't using distance as the excuse)
You know that old Guns & Roses song, "Used to Love Her" as in: "Well I used to love her, but I had to kill her"? Try not to think of that song.
Go on a week-long bender, have sex with lots of bar skanks. You'll loathe yourself so much by the time you're finished you'll swear you're done with women forever ... until next week.
It is never easy letting go;But It can be done.It has to be done!Other wise,it will drive you to the brink of insanity.The whole myth that there is one person out there for everyone,is just that,a myth.The sooner you realize that there are many women out there for you,the better off you will be.Go out and explore.And if in the end you still feel the same way about this woman,you can always have a son with her,it worked in my case
If you find a girl that fulfills the initial requirements of what you are looking for in a girl, then that works pretty much every time. Now, if you are just hooking up with a girl to get over an ex...then yes, it wont work every time.
