Okay, so i'm at the wave pool today with a group of friends just having a good time, minding our own business, whatever. So the wave bell rings, my buddy & I get up and start walking to the pool when this trashy looking girl & her really ugly friend stop us and start MF'ing both of us. Apparently this girl was under the impression that my buddy (guy) flipped her off of her raft and she wants "f*** him up...blah blah". Mind you, we had just gotten there about 10 minutes beforehand and had not even touched the water yet. So she's rambling on and on calling him names, cussing, making racial remarks, whatever before she walks over to grab a lifeguard. This is where I stepped in and told the lifeguard the situation. How this girl was acting completely irrational, how she had the wrong guys, how she needs to get the hell away from us then the girl gets in my face, starts MF'ing me then shoves me and tells me she's going to "beat my a**". Here's where it gets interesting.... In front of the lifeguard she winds back and takes two swings at me, completely misses then winds back for a third swing which I caught, grabbed her wrists and threw her to the ground. The question is: was I out of line? What is a guy supposed to do in that situation? Obviously, I would be a scumbag to hit the girl but at the same time am I not allowed to defend myself? Here I am feeling like crap, like I did something wrong. PLEASE somebody convince me i'm not out of line.
i think you have the right to not only do what you did but to hit her back, if she swings at you first.....no reason you can't swing back people are people, just because she's a female doesn't put her above you
you weren't out of line. You are thinking in society today. Girls(trashy ones) know that guys aren't supposed to touch them and they take advantage of it. You should not have hit her but I hope you threw her down hard.
Dude, I don't want to be racist but if that was a black girl, I would have KO'ed her. A couple years back, a black girl threw a basketball at my face and I punched her in the face. I don't give a F*, man. I'm hella nice and I don't even want to call girl names but these "girls" give themself a bad rep by talking the way they do. I kind of stereotype against them now. Their voice...their look...they fail at life (the ones that talk the way u describe). You should have KO'ed her.
It's self defense so you have every right to do what you did. I would have rear naked choked her until she taps out.
Can you please give us a conclusion to the story? What happened after you threw her to the ground? Where do chicks think they can get off throwing punches and not go to jail like a guy would in a similar situation? Cops should have been called and she should have been arrested on the spot. There were obviously witnesses.
im completely against hitting a girl or woman in any way almost. in that instance though ***** that B*itch UP
useless w/o pics. i think you did the right thing. its a no win situation. if you decked her youd get screwed over. if she decked you, you get screwed over. i think you did a good job of protecting yourself while minimizing the danger to the girl. dont feel like a jerk. (unless you really did flip her off her board )
If that was indeed how it went down then, no you were not out of line. If that was how it went down. (these types of stories tend to have two sides)