1. Welcome! Please take a few seconds to create your free account to post threads, make some friends, remove a few ads while surfing and much more. ClutchFans has been bringing fans together to talk Houston Sports since 1996. Join us!

[Guy vs. Girl Fight] Was I out of line?

Discussion in 'BBS Hangout' started by baller4life315, Jun 11, 2008.

Tags:
  1. baller4life315

    Joined:
    Sep 2, 2003
    Messages:
    12,692
    Likes Received:
    3,029
    Okay, so i'm at the wave pool today with a group of friends just having a good time, minding our own business, whatever. So the wave bell rings, my buddy & I get up and start walking to the pool when this trashy looking girl & her really ugly friend stop us and start MF'ing both of us.

    Apparently this girl was under the impression that my buddy (guy) flipped her off of her raft and she wants "f*** him up...blah blah". Mind you, we had just gotten there about 10 minutes beforehand and had not even touched the water yet. So she's rambling on and on calling him names, cussing, making racial remarks, whatever before she walks over to grab a lifeguard.

    This is where I stepped in and told the lifeguard the situation. How this girl was acting completely irrational, how she had the wrong guys, how she needs to get the hell away from us then the girl gets in my face, starts MF'ing me then shoves me and tells me she's going to "beat my a**".

    Here's where it gets interesting....

    In front of the lifeguard she winds back and takes two swings at me, completely misses then winds back for a third swing which I caught, grabbed her wrists and threw her to the ground.

    The question is: was I out of line?

    What is a guy supposed to do in that situation?

    Obviously, I would be a scumbag to hit the girl but at the same time am I not allowed to defend myself? Here I am feeling like crap, like I did something wrong. PLEASE somebody convince me i'm not out of line.
     
  2. astrosrule

    astrosrule Member

    Joined:
    Jul 28, 2002
    Messages:
    7,723
    Likes Received:
    7,631
    i think you have the right to not only do what you did but to hit her back, if she swings at you first.....no reason you can't swing back

    people are people, just because she's a female doesn't put her above you
     
  3. MayoRocket

    MayoRocket Member

    Joined:
    Feb 7, 2007
    Messages:
    1,982
    Likes Received:
    9
    Sounds like you did exactly what you should have done.
     
  4. DaDream

    DaDream Member

    Joined:
    Aug 17, 2006
    Messages:
    591
    Likes Received:
    7
    you weren't out of line. You are thinking in society today. Girls(trashy ones) know that guys aren't supposed to touch them and they take advantage of it. You should not have hit her but I hope you threw her down hard.
     
  5. kaocsaephan

    kaocsaephan Member

    Joined:
    Sep 30, 2007
    Messages:
    1,269
    Likes Received:
    26
    Dude, I don't want to be racist but if that was a black girl, I would have KO'ed her. A couple years back, a black girl threw a basketball at my face and I punched her in the face. I don't give a F*, man. I'm hella nice and I don't even want to call girl names but these "girls" give themself a bad rep by talking the way they do. I kind of stereotype against them now. Their voice...their look...they fail at life (the ones that talk the way u describe).

    You should have KO'ed her.
     
  6. white lightning

    Joined:
    Jun 13, 2002
    Messages:
    2,567
    Likes Received:
    741
    I also hope she was immediately ejected from the pool and not allowed back for a long time.
     
  7. dntrwl

    dntrwl Member

    Joined:
    Mar 14, 2007
    Messages:
    3,612
    Likes Received:
    44
    took the words right out of my mouth
     
  8. ChenZhen

    ChenZhen Member

    Joined:
    Aug 20, 2000
    Messages:
    1,779
    Likes Received:
    43
    It's self defense so you have every right to do what you did. I would have rear naked choked her until she taps out.
     
  9. professorjay

    professorjay Member

    Joined:
    Oct 20, 2006
    Messages:
    9,676
    Likes Received:
    388
    I don't care who or what it was, you always have the right to defend yourself.
     
  10. Surfguy

    Surfguy Member

    Joined:
    Sep 23, 1999
    Messages:
    24,560
    Likes Received:
    12,837
    Can you please give us a conclusion to the story? What happened after you threw her to the ground? Where do chicks think they can get off throwing punches and not go to jail like a guy would in a similar situation? Cops should have been called and she should have been arrested on the spot. There were obviously witnesses.
     
  11. bejezuz

    bejezuz Member

    Joined:
    Jun 26, 2002
    Messages:
    2,772
    Likes Received:
    69
    Rule of the streets: Step up like a man, get knocked down like a man.
     
  12. bobrek

    bobrek Politics belong in the D & D

    Joined:
    Sep 16, 1999
    Messages:
    36,288
    Likes Received:
    26,645
    So if a white girl threw a basketball at your face you would NOT have punched her?
     
  13. mlwoo

    mlwoo Contributing Member

    Joined:
    Oct 17, 2007
    Messages:
    3,797
    Likes Received:
    109
    The start of 90% of racist sentences.
     
  14. DaDream

    DaDream Member

    Joined:
    Aug 17, 2006
    Messages:
    591
    Likes Received:
    7
    nice!!!!!
     
  15. SwoLy-D

    SwoLy-D Member

    Joined:
    Jul 20, 2001
    Messages:
    37,618
    Likes Received:
    1,456
    It's on YOUTUBE already, man. I just saw it. You did the right thing. :D
     
  16. peleincubus

    peleincubus Member

    Joined:
    Oct 26, 2002
    Messages:
    26,741
    Likes Received:
    15,041
    im completely against hitting a girl or woman in any way almost.

    in that instance though ***** that B*itch UP
     
  17. codell

    codell Member

    Joined:
    Aug 26, 2002
    Messages:
    19,312
    Likes Received:
    715
    Well, now you are. Congrats. :)
     
  18. danny317

    danny317 Member

    Joined:
    Jul 31, 2002
    Messages:
    1,756
    Likes Received:
    2
    useless w/o pics. :D

    i think you did the right thing. its a no win situation. if you decked her youd get screwed over. if she decked you, you get screwed over. i think you did a good job of protecting yourself while minimizing the danger to the girl.

    dont feel like a jerk. (unless you really did flip her off her board :p )
     
  19. The Hunted

    The Hunted Member

    Joined:
    Jun 21, 2007
    Messages:
    2,653
    Likes Received:
    1,652
    If that was indeed how it went down then, no you were not out of line.


    If that was how it went down. ;) (these types of stories tend to have two sides)
     
  20. Nice Rollin

    Nice Rollin Member

    Joined:
    Mar 30, 2006
    Messages:
    11,858
    Likes Received:
    321
    that was the way to handle it. no problems here
     

Share This Page

  • About ClutchFans

    Since 1996, ClutchFans has been loud and proud covering the Houston Rockets, helping set an industry standard for team fan sites. The forums have been a home for Houston sports fans as well as basketball fanatics around the globe.

  • Support ClutchFans!

    If you find that ClutchFans is a valuable resource for you, please consider becoming a Supporting Member. Supporting Members can upload photos and attachments directly to their posts, customize their user title and more. Gold Supporters see zero ads!


    Upgrade Now