Is there anything worse than girls who pretend to be whores to be cool, and when it comes down to it, puss out about putting out? Besides drinking your alcohol, and wasting your time, it's just the sheer frustration of having to exert yourself for nothing. I'd much prefer prudes that are honest rather than fake whores. Ugh.
You ought to see the way the girls in LA behave. It's down right unsportsmen like. Put it this way, you better have your game face on if you want to play in LA.
I used to think I was a cool pimp daddy like that. Always trying to get girls in bed who I really didn't care about, which you obviously don't care about the girl you are refering to. Then I really could not get rid of that terrible feeling I had when I actually did get them in bed, but then didn't want to date them and it made them feel like whores. Usually they wouldn't freak out or anything, just kind of get that resigned expression of "well I've been played". And the topper was when it happened to me by this girl back when I was 22. This girl totally treated me like a w****. I thought it was cool at first, but then I realized I really liked her and it would really make me depressed when I realized she was just using me for emotional and physical comfort. Now I will only sleep with a girl if I really like her, really want to date her, and have dated her for at least a month. I also don't want any whores. I also hate having sex with a condom so it is wonderful to be in a committed relationship. So I know it is fun to play around, but just some things to think about. And if you really find frustration in discovering that the girl you like is not a w****, and if you are really concerned about women drinking all of your alcohol, then maybe we are completely different and this would have no bearing. Possible. Or maybe you are drunk and haven't been to bed yet.
OUCH! Someone got blue balls this morning? hehe Look on the bright side - at least they found you attractive enough to play you . My question for anyone in the bar scene is: if she's that easy, then everyone's had her - so why aren't you afraid of STD's etc? The last time I as single in Japan, I had a girl who was buying me drinks and practically tried to pull me into a love hotel. I told her I had to go to work (kind of true), but honestly I was afraid she was going to give me a little more than her love.
Because most girls have low self-esteem and get off on the power of seduction. Knowing they can control men. Its a dominatrix thing. It goes back to the matriarical(sp?) days when women ruled men. Personally I dont like it. I dont do it,and think those girls are stupid. I mean, whats wrong with going up to a guy and saying "HI, want to go out sometime?". Yet most girls go EXTREME and grid,show body,then when the guy thinks the girl is coming on to him asks her out only for her to laugh and say "gotcha!!". Its also to attract attention to reproduce and find the guy with the most money. I feel sorry for guys. Girls are alot more cunning and deceptive than guys and basically girls are evil. If you give false impressions and or lie,then you are simply evil. Actually,dont even listen to me,because I NEVER talk to those girls or had them as friends so I have no clue what they are thinking when they w**** around. My new theory is based on MTV. People(teens,young guys/girls) are so boring,and have no life that they have to imitate stuff they see on MTV just to have any personality whatsoever. I mean,you see teens dressed up like their favorite singers,and act that way. When your a teen,you think that is "cool" but once your older you look back and see other teens,and realize that when you did that it was because you where going through an identity crisis. Basically bored,stupid. My advice for guys is simply to date only online,and put an ad up with your picture. Dont try to get laid,and you will attract girls who are not whores. But you need to weed your way through the ugly ones and find that 1 girl that is beautiful but also has high morals and doesnt sleep around on a first date. Basically your screwed guys because I only know of one girl like that. Me. Every girl I have met that doesnt sleep around its because she is alot uglier than me. Anyways, Im taken to bad.
Sweetie - amazing post. Especially like the conflict between the beginning and the end. Nah nah nah nah nah nah!
Have fun worrying about whether or not some w****-demon womb is harvesting your seed. Or at least take Baqui's advice so you don't have to.
Talking about Baqui, yesterday I heard from a reliable source who recently talked to a former NBA player called Otis that word around the NBA is that what really happened in the Kobe case is that everything was consensual, until Kobe wanted to do a Baqui99, she said no, but he did not care and still did it. Not making this up .
Is there anything worse than girls who pretend to be whores to be cool, and when it comes down to it, puss out about putting out? Besides drinking your alcohol, and wasting your time, it's just the sheer frustration of having to exert yourself for nothing. Yeah, there's one thing worse. Guys who buy girls alcohol and waste time with them with the sole purpose of trying to get them to put out.
I assumed that is what she meant when she said it was consensual up to a point and then she didn't want to go any further but he "took her from behind".... Both sides don't want the details about that one out yet though I assume they would in trial. pasox - hilarious response sweetie - if you really believe that a girl flirting with a guy is a direct indicator that he is going to get laid then you have had a very sheltered life.
Or maybe it's you thinking you are too good to use the reply with quote feature like the rest of us lowly mortal posters. And you sort of don't know all the facts. We invited some girls over to our house, and they were talking big. They knew what was up.
They were talking big? And you think any girl who says she likes to give head means she wants to give it to you?
These girls, as opposed to most, actually were in on the fact that the guys they were hanging out with wanted to get them in bed.... interesting....
Have to say that I have been kind of wondering about this. Why would anyone go through the effort of NOT using that. Trying to be special or what is it? Just curious.
I dont expect to get any when I go out. If a girl digs you, get her number and then call her in a week. Take her out and see how it goes. Most girls wear skimpy clothes and flirt just because of the "control" factor sweetie mentioned. I ignore these types like the plauge - they are just bad news from the get go. The hotties know they are hot and will play you till the clock hits 2am - leaving you with an empty wallet and frustrations. Go for the girls who arent as noticebale - At least thats what I do sometimes. Girls hold all the cards unfortunately. Pimp - I owe you a few rounds of drinks buddy.
