Hey guys, You may remember my infamous "she kicks ass" story, well anyways, thats a thing of the past, and she was a girl in the middle of a rebound with the real girl I love. Well, I just got a phone call that truly broke my heart, and I really feel like jumping out of a window. I have been with this girl for three years, which is a long time for me, minus the rebound, and like I said I am extremely upset. I just got a phone call, and it was her ****ing some other guy!! what the hell did I do to deserve this? She was saying, and not wanting to go into to explicit details, "put it in my a** baby", thats right, and I heard some freaking guy in the background say "I am glad your stupid boyfriend finally gets to hear this. This is why the hell I don't get into long term relationships, and she just destroyed me. What should I do guys, and I appreciate the ability to vent some anger on here, cause I have felt the lowest of low I have ever felt in my life.
Kill her. Disclaimer: arkoe does not actually promote violence of any kind. I'm sure a simple "We're done" would have done the job. That's just not right.
I guess my way is the Ghandi-like version of yours. P.S. That really does suck, dude. I don't know what to say.
Sorry to hear that man. That's one hell of a way to dump someone, like out of a movie or something. The best thing to do is remember there are many other women out there. You'll find the right lady for you. Obviously this hoe bag wasn't the one....**** her. Forget about it!
Maybe she is a BBS member and saw you posting your club pics and got jealous, so she decided to get even and have sex with a total stranger.
Damn . . . that is just NOT cool . . . you should try to sleep with her sister if she has one. Man, I don't even really have any advice or anything. I wouldn't have any idea what to do. I guess the best thing you could do is just move on and completely ignore her. Damn, that ****'s all wrong, man . . .
Well webbster, you've just got to give her a taste of her own medicine; the next time your man friend is over for some action you should give her a call. Works every time.
Hey, even the "ass kicking" "rebound" relationships sound better than this. What is it exactly that has kept you on and off with this person for so long? I mean, sorry it's taken so much time and that you had to find out the way you did, but she is not worth it. The best and most mature thing to do is just move on and don't let her back into your life. If you need to get stress out, find some appropriate way to vent it that doesn't hurt anybody. Revenge is juvenile... ...unless it involves sending a piece of your own poo wrapped as a birthday present. Then it's actually a pretty cool story.
Ok, look dude. 1) You should know by now that I ALWAYS tell people... (say it with me) .... DO NOT STAY IN CONTACT WITH YOUR EX-GIRLFRIENDS! If she calls - DON'T ANSWER. Lose her number. Stop calling and emailing her. And when she tries to contact you, snub her! Stop having any contact at all with her. And this goes for all you other guys who are reading this! 2) They were probably faking it just to piss you off. I'd seriously doubt that some other guy would want to have the girl he's doing call up her ex-bf. The best thing you can do for yourself is put her entirely in your past. 100%. Put the relationship you had with her entirely in your past. 100%. Forget about women and girls entirely for a while - you're messed up right now and in no mindset to go chasing tail. You're gonna feel lonely - that's normal. When you feel like that, tell yourself that you have to take your focus off women and put your focus onto the cue ball, or the bowling ball, or whatever you're doing. Go do stuff you like to do. Shoot pool, ride bikes, go bowling, hang out with friends, work out, etc. Stay away from booze - it's a depressant. Focus on you for a while and put that crappy person behind you.
How in the world did your realationship get to the point she calls you while banging another guy? Please don't say you still want to work it out with her. Please don't say you still want to work it out with her. Please don't say you still want to work it out with her. Fight the guy if you have too. Never ever talk to that girl ever again under any circumstances never ever ever ever.
Agreed. It just sounds too deliberate. Still, doesn't speak very well for her or her guy friend. I don't know the whole story... if you had an argument with the girl or made her upset or anything... but that's not a mature way for her to handle it.
This is the time to break out any explicit videos/photos of her, if you have any, and start getting your revenge. I suggest making CD copies of any video evidence and start sending them to her buddies.. ESPECIALLY her guy friends. I dont usually recommend this tactic very much, as your rep could take a hit among your social circles, but this sounds justified considering the bull**** she pulled. Revenge is a sweet, sweet mistress... get goin!
I had no argument with her, no warning, no nothing, this was all so sudden. I have noticed lately that she isnt happy, just she wouldnt speak out about what it is. so she turns around and does this to me, screw that mess you know. I am better than this crap, immaturity like this probably would have gotten to me in High school or whatever, but I feel myself to be older and wiser, and not have to deal with such immaturity. I am not going to lie, I loved this girl so much, she made me smile, made my heart melt, and was a driving reason to get up in the morning, but I feel more dissapointed than hurt. I honestly did not see this coming. I must say though, you guys and gals out here on the board have good hearts and souls, and I appreciate any advice that you guys give. It is always the best advice coming from complete strangers cause you dont have to worry about alterier motives. thanks guys, I feel a little bit better now, a buddy came by to hang out, and we played some NBA 2K5, kicked his ass too with Stromile at the helm. Again, thanks!
Man, this is sad, but we don't want you to go all Eddie Griffin on a ho!!! If a girl would do this to someone, then she is someone who you shouldn't be with in the first place. Very low-class... As a matter a fact, get you're number changed. Make sure she can't contact you again unless she showed up in person. You have learned from this relationship, and you will be a stronger person because if it. And, what ever you do, stay away from this woman!!! No phone calls, and do not talk to her friends, because it will get back to her... As a man, you have to learn to be like, fu** it, and as Snoop Dog once put it "We don't love them hoes!" You will find someone that will treat you with respect. Keep your head up and move on....
A few things. It sucks that it happened to you, but it is good that you found now, rather than later. Now you know that no matter what qualities she has or had in her that made you love her, there also exists those which make her do something like this to someone who obviousl cares about her. You don't need to be treated like that, so you can just move on. I agree it was probably faked. If it wasn't faked, then take some consolation that she wasn't enjoying it. Anybody who is into it with another person is going to be thinking about matters at hand and not about making sure they get the phone and make a call to an ex-bf. She probably has some gripe against you, real or imagined. Maybe she just feels upset because she feels like you aren't moving on. She was sitting around talking about it, and she, and possibly the other guy hatched up this plan. At this point it is too late to do anything about that, but if you bump into her again, just laugh, and don't say a word. If she does something like this again then you can laugh outloud on the phone and hang up, or make it backfire for her, and start saying, "Sweet! do you guys mind if I come over with my video camera?" She's trying to upset you, just do anything that makes her think you are enjoying it. Whatever you do, don't let her know it worked.
