GF send me long break up email at work - ruins my day

it's another dude.

 

I agree.

Just because she was crazy over you before, doesn't mean it will always stay that way. I don't know any women who want to be in a relationship unless they know it's going somewhere and it sounds like your relationship wasn't.

 

In my motherland we have a saying, amor de lejos.. amor de pende*os; but when a woman is hawt, sometimes you have to take a risk. So we need pictures to evaluate. j/k

I've always felt that breaking up through email is bush league, that alone should tell you all you need to know about that person. I suggest to forget about her, and find someone closer to home, maybe a 2 hour drive.


"she has been driving 4 hours about every other week to come see me, when she's here she cleans my place, washes dishes, clothes, is everything a good gf/wife should be."


best line in a thread in the past month. =)

 

It is very difficult to make long distance relationships work. It is better to find someone who lives close to you. The long drives get old.......quick.

 

Yup. And it has been for a while.

When a woman says, "I think we should take a break so we can think things through," what she's really saying is "I'm interested in an other guy and I want to take a break from you so I can go have sex with him. After that I'll decide which guy I want to stick with."
 

 

I agree. I think the reason why she was still coming to see you, though being less affectionate was because there was probably mutual interest between her and the other guy, but it wasn't acted upon, or out in the open enough that she was sure it would ever come to develop.

However that must have changed recently, so she's cutting her ties with you.

It is very likely that this new guy won't work out, and she'll think she misses being with you at some point in the not too distant future.

Do yourself a favor and don't fall for it, or at least re-enter it again with your eyes wide open.

 

Sounds like she just wanted what she couldn't have then started to get it and started to get bored with no drama. I'm not sure why the girls love the drama. Could also be another guy, that's usually the case. I think there are signs of when a girl isn't into a guy anymore, sadly I watched He's Just Not Into You... and they had the same thing up there... if he/she isn't sleeping with you, then they're not that into you.

Girls are fickle, maybe give her one call and say what you want to say. Leave a VM if she doesn't pick up, keep it short and simple. If you got other things on your chest write an email. Then chill for a bit, go hang out with your friends, get involved with other stuff. Don't pester her. Try to keep your mind off her, which will be impossible, but don't pester her. If its meant to be she'll reply to you, if not then at least you're starting to move on.

Good Luck.

 

and half the time it means "i'm already sleeping with another guy and dont like you anymore."

 

She is trying to confuse you with her words. You see if you pick apart all the fallacies in the email you won't have enough energy to focus on the real issue. She cheated. When a girl loves you but feels ya'll ain't right for each other it is more short and to the point and it doesn't affect the intimacy. I have had enough breakup sex to know.

It's another dude. She's saving you some gas money. Get a new email address.

 

It could have been worse...she couldve sent a text message. Now that would have sucked.

 

she's gone Anne Heche

 

its another dude!
Why else would she be so hot and cold, assuming you guys didn't have other issues that could be the reason. Fugg her man. Lots of fish in the sea.
I think getting dumped is better than getting dragged along in a bad relationship and having to do the dumping yourself.

 

It's not another dude.

She is really into you and all from what it sounds, but she is not sure about things. Women are difficult to understand. Their emotions fluctuate more than we change draws.

If I were you I wouldn't call her, email her, or anything. I know it's easier to say then do, cause you're confused right now. But really if it's meant to be, she'll be back.

Keep ya head up patna!

 

Rather... 'which guy I want to stick me'

 

So you've only been dating for 3-4 months. She comes to see you more often than you go see her. She travels 4 hours to be your maid. And that is what you think a good GF/Wife should do??

She was trying so hard to get you, and decided it wasn't worth it once she did. Could be a whole bunch of reasons why she would break it off, but I would say that doing it in email is pretty crappy, and you are stuck at work thinking about it.

 

Sorry bro but girls are not like that unless another guy comes into play.. Unless your leaving something out of the story like you tried to give her the Ann Hatheway.

 

She's already getting clingy after only a month? Hello? ISSUES....

She met someone else in her town.

They had sex that night.

They got in a fight the next morning.

That other guy has re-entered the picture and he's putting it to her again.

She's made her decision and it's the other guy.

It's another guy.

He's there, you're not. You lose.



Not trying to be an ******* at all, but man, I've seen this a million times. I think we all have. Am I right, guys?

 

There might be a very small exception to that in this case. Very tiny...

They live 4 hours away, so for either of them to drive to see each other just to break up, would be horrible. But like I said if they are meant to stay together it will get worked out...

But I do agree worse way ever to break up.

 

Move on, dude. Life's too short. Go round up your posse and hit a strip bar tonight.