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Feeling really guilty

Discussion in 'BBS Hangout' started by djohn2oo8, Sep 20, 2009.

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  1. djohn2oo8

    djohn2oo8 Member

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    Last night, I made a stupid decision to let a friend drive my car after I was unable to. In the process, he hit a car while turning into a parking spot. Their car got dinged up a bit, but mine had a few scratches. My friend then suggested we just leave, but I could not do it. After I refused to leave without giving any information, he then said he would pay for the damages, so we left them his information. Feeling terrible right now, thinking about going back and leaving my info.
     
  2. moestavern19

    moestavern19 Member

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    He was the stupid ass for hitting the car man, you shouldn't feel guilty for leaving his info.

    Your friend sounds like a prick here.
     
  3. aghast

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    "after I was unable to" = you were both drunk?
     
  4. djohn2oo8

    djohn2oo8 Member

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    he wasn't
     
  5. Fatty FatBastard

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    I'm getting really tired of high school kids in this forum.
     
  6. aghast

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    Good job on you, then, for handing over the keys.

    You should only feel guilty if you had pledged to remain sober before hand. If he was competent to drive, and he agreed to do so, it's not your fault.

    If the damages are insignificant enough, once he is contacted by the owner of the parked car, you might want to offer to split the repair costs with him out-of-pocket, so that his insurance is not negatively affected.

    If your friend was sober, what made him such a lousy driver in this instance?
     
  7. bobrek

    bobrek Politics belong in the D & D

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    Ahhh, the irony.....
     
  8. Smokey

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    I hit a parked car while sober, and yes I was in high school at the time.
     
  9. Batman Jones

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    I'm sure they're tired of grumpy old men.
     
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    Shoot - even the "kids" on here that aren't in HS are tired of grumpy old men... LOL!
     
  11. Codman

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    It's understandable that you feel "bad" because your friend was involved. We all care about our buddies. However, you are not the one at fault here, mainly because you weren't driving. At least you all left some sort of information, even if the damages were minor.

    See if you even get a call...the damage may have been minor enough that you won't.

    Good luck.
     
  12. Fatty FatBastard

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    Oh, this is hysterical coming from you.
     
  13. DonnyMost

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    Even the high school kids don't start threads about people blocking them on facebook.
     
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    I was pointing out that he isn't as boisterous in other areas. Thought it was pretty cut and dry...

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    Off to watch the game.
     
  15. RedRedemption

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    Well. He hit the car, and then wanted to run away without leaving info. You shouldn't feel guilty whatsoever.
     
  16. ItsMyFault

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    Damn Fatty, your post backfired on you.
     
  17. macalu

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    edit: n/m, misread the post.
     
  18. justtxyank

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    The facebook drama queen is tired of kids on the message board?

    Hahaha
     
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    I had the same issue a couple of months back. And i'm in College for the old men who hate HS people. The only difference between this story and mine was that I was drunk (my friend couldn't drive because a couple hours before going to the club he got his license confiscated for driving drunk) at that time I was still good. After that, a fight started and we had to leave in a rush, I hit the car, didn't leave no info, but called the police the morning after to declare the problem. We where able to locate the car and solve the problem since then.

    good luck with your story, and don't feel guilty.
     
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    ******* it, FFB always hijacks the thread and makes it about him. I came in here expecting an epic topic where everyone rags on the TC for letting his friend drive.
     

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