so a buddy of mine moved to arizona about two years ago to start running a hotel/motel business and to try to become a manager of a hotel out there. his parents bought a small motel and left him in charge of it. we kept in touch via email and an occasional phone call. so this past saturday i went to the large ras garba (its an indian/hindu thing) in anaheim and I ran into him. and I dont know what happened in his two years in AZ but he came back looking like an indian douchebag. Popped collar, a bronze tan (seriously why did he need to apply bronzer? he's indian), spiked bleached tipped hair, and ridiculously large diamond earring studs. I was with my other friend and told him, you know I dont think I can talk to this guy anymore he looks like a total douchebag. So now my douchey friend is back in so cal and told me he wants to hang out and all. I talked to his brother and asked him what was with the new look and he said thats his new style and that he has been dressing like that for the past few months. Now my friend is a nice guy, or he was before he moved out to arizona, but i dont think I could handle hanging out with someone who looks like a douchebag. I even told him he looked like a douche and he looked at me and asked me what I meant by that. sigh
New poll: "Are friends of douchebags douchebags themselves? Yes/No/Don't Know" Seriously, though... is he a totally different person displaying douchebaguery, or just his demeanor and the way he dresses? Have you had a talk with him about it? I think if you're concerned, you should. Friends don't let friends become douchebags.
How old is this friend of yours? If you say anything over the age of 21, then he seriously needs to grow up.
your friend is a douche but you refuse to hang out with a good friend because of what he looks like superficial > douche
his name starts with a S as for his personality: well i spoke to him briefly saturday night when we first bumped into each other. after he said we should hang he left normally in the past we'd hang out the entire nights at these events. even though we were in the same ras line later that night he hardly acknowledged any of us when we came across each other. also he was with a different girl, he was with the same girl for years and i had honestly thought the two of them would get married but he was with a different girl but didnt bother introducing her to any of us which was weird to do. especially since the 3 of us were all looking at her because we all knew she wasnt the same girl he was with for like the past 3-4 years. and yeah he is over 21
yoyo..are you Gujarati? My friend and his Indian frat are always going to garba like 3 times a week..they see some crazy stuff there..exorcisms and all kinds of fun. But what I have noticed when young, rich Indian dudes hang out in large groups, douchebaggery feeds off to the ones who weren't, and yeah they pop their collars and say Ni*ga in every other sentence like they're the new sht to hit the street.
I completely understand. I caught my best friend, a mexican from chiapas, with his radio station on 740. And he hates baseball. A part of me died that day, but we're still best of friends. I got over it.
email him sending him funny douchebag links... showing pictures! Hopefully it's just that he looks like a douchebag and actually hasn't become one.
I have nothing remotely constructive to add, other than I lived in Anaheim for 10 years. That is all.
I have nothing remotely constructive to add, other than I drove from Monterey Bay to San Francisco once. That is all.
no i am not gujarati i am south indian (from bangalore) but i like going to garba's its always a great to meet girls. the main "season" though is almost over there maybe one more down here in so cal but i think last saturday's was the last real big one, there were about 2k people at that one and yeah you are right there were several indian guys there that looked like total douches i just wanted to smack their faces around with my dandias. i was just saddened to see my friend as one of them.
Question: Does your friend carry a sword or have a Big Wheel in his front yard. This is a VERY important question.
I don't think you can underestimate the potential of certain posters here making you laugh out loud. And laughing is a good thing.
I listen to 740. I must be upsetting all my Mexican friends. That is some hilarious stuff, señor Vladi.
