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Does "Where the World is Going" bother you? Do you cope?

Discussion in 'BBS Hangout: Debate & Discussion' started by crossover, Jun 27, 2007.

  1. crossover

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    I am a mathematician and the beauty of the universe and my family has always been my fall back. But at one point in my life, I was often depressed and had a difficult time finding direction - mainly because I wasn't sure I could see myself and family staying in certain communities and environments. I recognize that if I were religious, perhaps I could have been more amiable with things (and religion can be a beautiful thing); but as a scientist, I have needed more purpose and reason than faith could deliver. (As an aside, I believe regardless of freewill, in some religions if we suppose God was omnipotent, then how could God not have already preset my choice to not rely on faith?)

    I guess I should expand on the original topic a bit. Today on national radio, there was a segment about teachers passionate about their profession but they described how students were getting more and more disrespectful and even how they had been assaulted by students physically (one describes how their jaw was broken, another their neck). This could be an interesting issue on larger network media mediums. Instead, Paris Hilton dominates the main media streams because however inane her actions and however much people criticize the media (saying things like "Who cares? Broadcast something that matters!"), this is what most people will turn on and watch at the end of the day and focus their general discussions on when they need to talk about something at the work place. It is this material that gets ratings and in turn keeps the funds rolling in.

    Is it just "naive?" A sign of changing times? Should it bother a person that you often can't talk about a serious issue without a wisecrack being thrown in? If you try and keep serious and avoid the comedy, are you just the sour and boring one? Should it bother you that our president, our leader, and every single political figure is ridiculed into the ground? Are your coworkers up to some agenda (perhaps just as much as you) to get ahead but it teeters on the borderline of some ethical wrong? In my competitive academic environment, it was rare to see a person not cheating to get ahead. Are those who didn't cheat wrong to not conform, and get left behind, while being disadvantaged? I can't help but feel there is just so much more disrespect, distrust, everywhere and and anywhere. Principles and values are always second to the mighty dollar and getting yourself ahead, even if it means leaving others hurting. Is it naive? or silly idealism? I'm not dreaming of utopia, only wondering if you think the world is getting worse.

    People will then claim that the world has always been like this (as if this were a good argument) and it is just the way people are, the way the world is. But even I as a young child remember a time when my elders would tell me how a company would bring you in like a member of the family, educating you and keeping you in there until a ripe old age. Instead now, it is managerial strategy to provide a "professional and competitive atmosphere" (work each other dry over that job) that often undergoes "systematic structural changes" (you're replaced by new young students who are hungry) that facilitate "economic reform in a growing industry" (keeping the profits high). Professors I work with recall stories when a phD meant an actual passion for knowledge and academia; those were the real geeks! phD to most of my peers doesn't mean anything but a great way to start at a high salary and replace a veteran loyal employee. More powerfully, I remember when I was young, we left the garage door open and yet every day I have to close mine.

    Most people would believe I am of an older generation holding on to older beliefs or a disgruntled middle aged man who has lost his dreams... but I am not... yet I am. I am a well-rounded person and a mathematician in my mid-20's who has luckily seen most of the world and was actually blessed from birth to live a comfortable and loving life. But I can't help but feel I know so many people in my generation who feel lost, yet feel they can do nothing about it and except just become part of the mechanism, stuck as a gear in society until they break (then they wonder, what have I done all my life? but then it's a little late).

    So here I am late at night, doing proofs and going on very little sleep the last week (apologize if this has all been a smattering of emo nonsense), yet I stopped for an hour because I felt so very compelled to write this. Do you see it at all like I do? Do you cope?
     
  2. rhester

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    I agree with your generalizations.
    The culture has changed dramatically over the last 40 yrs.
     
  3. MadMax

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    it's going to be ok.

    for more on your free will question, read John Calvin. he talked a bunch about the tension between God's omnipotence and your free will.
     
  4. Rocket River

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    It is the inevitable result of unrestrained Capitalism
    Capitalism is a mindset as much as an economic System.
    We are Capitalist in every thing we do

    Rocket River
     
  5. rimbaud

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    This is nothing new. :)

    I am older than you are and when I was in 8th grade three of our teachers were attacked, two needing hospitilization. Half (at least) of the students were disrespectful, etc.. The next year a kid was stabbed in the neck with a screwdriver before school and died. So when I hear about trouble at school and how this is all new I have flashbacks.

    Violence, crime, etc. is historically cyclical, by the way. I try to temper my current worldview away from nostalgia but not so much that I am blind.

    Cultural superficiality is another matter...one that I htink is tied into our hideous education system. I am still a firm believer that education solves or at least lays the foundation to solve nearly all of a society's problems. A more informed and educated populace is one less pacified...which I suppose is part of the problem.
     
  6. Ubiquitin

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    I disagree. I believe this is the Capitalists' ploy to solidify their power by removing the entrepenural spirit out of the working class. This way, the working class will never challenge the hegemony that exists. I am a Capitalist.
     
  7. DonkeyMagic

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    we have to have free will, there is no other choice :)

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    i dont think being superficial has anything to do with education in a school, or at least not major part. I would lean more towards parents and upbringing as well as how society is these days in general. But i do agree its a really bad problem whatever the reason.


    In general, i've seen shifts in attitudes and behaviours (or whatever you want to call it) for a while and to be honest im dont particularly like where its pointing. Whether its the overall lack of testicular fortitude people show now in days, to lawsuit overzealousness, to the whinning, and maybe most importantly a lack of common sense...i dont think these traits lead a country/civilization/world in a good direction.

    So how do i cope? well, try to not let others ruin your time. Dont let others bring you down. Is it frustrating at times? yes, but let it effect your overall disposition and move on to things you can control.
     
  8. Sishir Chang

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    I hear you crossover and sympathize. I get frustrated with the shallowness of our society every now and then but its people like you who can save society. My advice is don't get caught up in despair but work to make things better. Actively participate in our democracy (not just voting but work on campaigns you believe in or even run for office), teach, participate in your community, and spend your money wisely (vote with your dollars). You might think that as an individual you can't make a difference but every major social change is due to individuals acting to bring about that change.
     
  9. Sishir Chang

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    But what is the alternative? Would you rather have government making most of the decisions in the economy? The only thing worse than capitalism is a command economy. Under capitalism you do have the power to vote with your dollars and if you see problems with things like US workers losing their jobs or being paid less make sure you buy from companies that employ US workers and pay them well. Encourage others to do so too.
     
  10. MR. MEOWGI

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    We have a free will but not a completely free will.

    Yes, our society is based the notion that consumerism and consumption brings lasting happiness (the main problem). But I would say our schools are a complete reflection of this. When do they teach otherwise? How could they when it is the foundation of our society?

    The kids are getting restless.
     
  11. rimbaud

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    Well I was speaking most specifically to the superficiality mentioned in the first post - politicians, "Jerry Springer-ification" of the network news, etc.. I know Chuck Klosterman says there is no such thing as bad culture in this regard, that culture simply is...but that culture is absolutely dependant upon the lowest common denominator these days. My point is that if you raise that LCD then everybody wins. Keep in mind I also think that proper education and educational opportunity improves economic/class standing and thus improves parents and upbringing.

    In this way I fully admit to being an idealist and perhaps a commie because I think people should be able to go to school for free no matter how high the degree (obviously not talking about all schools being free but I know they have crunched the numbers where paying for every child's education through college is actually cheaper than various other things that we either don't need or do too much of - incarceration, for example, which is greatly reduced with education). Wow, that was a long parenthetical statement.

    The digits are flowing but the brain is melting? Stop the madness, Ms Powter.
     
  12. DonkeyMagic

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    imo, schools teach arts, science, history, etc. parents teach life lessons like dont be materialitic, etc.

    but it isnt just the LCD with these superficiality issues. Often its very smart people and well educated. i get your point on being more educated can lead to one being a better parent, but again i dont necessarily agree. There are a lot of smart people who are bad parents. I guess i just dont think you have to be educated or particularly smart to teach a kid a few important life lessons.

    that is a pretty long one..topped my best.
     
  13. rimbaud

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    Wow, I need to be more careful with my language (instead of wasting time on parentheticals). I didn't mean to imply that smart people = better parents. Smarter and wealthier parents can sometimes be the worst. I just think with regards to American culture, politics, and economics education is THE foundation. Parenting...not so much.
     
  14. tinman

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    yes, that's why we aren't happy with 1st round exits, we want championships
    capitalism is human nature, we always want better

    we want steve nash, not rafer alston
     
  15. DonkeyMagic

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    ok i see what you mean. How would education handle the pussification of america? being overly PC? the lack of common sense?

    education may be the foundation, but the parents are the walls..giving the solid base shape. no?
     
  16. tinman

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    back in the day, Maxwell went up in the stands cause someone want a piece of him. no melee ocurred. he got his wish.

    now fans want a piece of ron artest and stephen jackson.

    we are dumber.
     
  17. rimbaud

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    I don't even understand what the first two mean and I fear that I am not as manly as you so my parenting would probably be part of your problem.

    As to the lack of common sense? Often that is an individual thing and has nothing to do with education level but sometimes what we define as not having common sense is really making wrong choices. This can be somewhat diminished by having or knowing about more and "proper" choices. Common sense is far too nebulous to control, improve, or define so mostly we are left flapping our gums.
     
  18. DonkeyMagic

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    :D



    im not talking about being "manly", i just mean have a little backbone, be able to face and handle reality...and not just the good but especially the bad. Not being so quick to be insulted, which is undoubtedly followed by a lawsuit, etc


    then education wouldnt help. I tend to think there is a less common sense now in days.
     
  19. tinman

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    let me also point out that Maxwell complained about his contract extension and that he wanted to stay the starter for the Rockets.

    Ron Artest was making a rap album with his truwarrior company, so he wanted to leave the Pacers.

    Maxwell never had 'truwarrior' in his hair either.

    on the brightside, they are building some sweet casinos in vegas.
    CITYCENTER will own all!
    http://www.citycenter.com/default.aspx
     
  20. Invisible Fan

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    I think we'd be better off if we didn't buy into the whole "everyone must be self interested" for some invisible hand to work. We're coming into an age of numbers and polling that allows people to game the system and abuse the numbers to satisfy their goals.

    It was shortsighted when we blamed accounting firms like Arthur Anderson for cooking Enron's books when the Street were hailing them was darlings years before. The whole stock market and performance bonus system is deeply flawed, yet many have the belief that it can magically self correct itself.

    Then again, not many Americans deeply trust in the government to do what's right. The No Child Left Behind Act and our poor healthcare system are examples of the numbers being abused without the right intentions being carried out. Yet the people consented to a large government for it to take care of this issue. I don't see deregulation would do any better for the public.

    The solution, imo, has to be done in the grassroots. We have to fight the numbers and reassume our complexity in the face of convenience and conformity. One would be to ignore what the prescription industry tells us what mental illness we have in their commercials. Another is to connect outside our local communities so that another person isn't a statistic to be counted and marginalized. Yet another is to realize our individual potential for greed and self interest and whether we're in control of it or if it controls us to grind through the motions.

    It is still for our self interest. It's for our freedom and our capacity to live out as complete human beings.
     

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